Case Work Involved In The Improvement Of Triangular Entanglement Family Upbringing

Triangle entanglement family is the product of family problems,in this sick family structure,family members’ emotions are separated,most of the family conflicts are by scolding the third party to show,the lack of benign interaction between family members,this family atmosphere,will inevitably cause the weak in the family in a weak position,often manifested as the parents’ contradictions are not directly resolved,but through the children’s education,behavior,attitude and other issues to play a big role,through abuse,scolding to accuse each other,For a long time,under this kind of bad parenting without the right to make independent decisions,the child will become the victim of this fight,and the character and style will be affected,and timidity,cowardice,low self-esteem,and lack of assertiveness will be the child’s "label".As a group with large number,deep concealment and the broadest influence of the problems,the tangled families deserve our attention and research,it is found that there is little research on the tangled families,so this thesis takes the tangled families in the morbid family structure as the research background,and bases on the family system theory and cognitive behavioral therapy model,through six times of direct intervention and many times of on-line conversation,the ways and methods of intervention were adjusted according to the improvement degree of the host family,to deeply analyze the relationship between husband and wife,parent-child relationship and family atmosphere,through a level-by-level in-depth intervention,so that the husband and wife to understand the dangers of family entanglement triangle,therefore,we should change the mode of education on the basis of improving the family structure,provide more scientific and reasonable living and educational environment for children,and provide more effective guidance and help for the process of children’s socialization.