Superposition Of Triangle Family Structure Model:the Changes Of Rearing Pattern And Strategy Choice

Since the 70s and 80s of the 20th century, China has adopted a policy of family planning, according to the calculation, the children born in the 80 s have already been 30 years old. This generation of only children is that we call "generation" alone, most of them have been married, and their children can be referred to as the "second generation" alone. According to the population quantity and structure characteristics of each generation, the family composed of the three generations was vividly called as "421" family, "421 family" is a new phenomenon of family with Chinese characteristics, "the new family structure is overturning the traditional concept of "equilateral triangle" now.In a traditional upbringing mode, the parents play a leading role in the child’s upbringing, grandparents play a supplementary role. As a result, corresponding with the traditional pattern of parenting is a kind of solid triangle family structure that composed of parents and children. With the development of the society, the previous family structure have taken fundamental changes under the joint action of multiple factors. As a new generation of biological parents,they cannot fully tend to their children, and they turn over their children to their parents to raise, namely the phenomenon of "second generation" raising appears. Parent’s temporary absence, "cradle" age have formed between grandparents and grandchildren, and the two generations organize the "across generations to nuclear family". Under the mode of skip-generation raising, role exchange has taken place between parents and grandparents, they and their grandchildren constitute solid triangle structure, and at the same time, the "421 family" change to a superposition of a triangle of family structure.This article discovers the characteristics of the intergenerational interaction mode by comparing the two different tending mode of family structure model, including the raising intergenerational fault in the case of parents’ absence, grandparents’ role exchange during the process of parenting "second generation" alone, as well as in the "second generation" alone interact with their parents, the roles that ancestors play, etc., to discover the subtle changes between the family members, explore the logic of triangle family structure’s construction. For the problems existing in superposition of triangle family’s internal structure under skip-generation rearing pattern, to find the counter measures and methods to solve the problem, in order to build a harmonious intergenerational interaction, maintain the "second generation alone:421 family structure".