On The Construction Of Network Love Relationship By Network Interpersonal Discourse

Through the analysis of the network interpersonal discourse, this paper analyzes the construction of the network love.The construction of network relationship based on Relational Dialectics Theory.At the same time,through the analysis of the construction of the relationship between the network love, I found a new explanation for this theory.This paper analyzes 10 conversations between 6 groups of couples, including the process of the construction, maintaining and dissolution, to explain the effect of contradictions in the discourse.Bakhtin thought the essence of dialogue is a dialectical contradiction view. This view is developed in Relational Dialectics Theory:the mutual penetration of the antagonistic discourse constitutes a social realiry.The confrontation of the words is the confrontation of different meaning system, the reproduction and production of meaning construct consciousness, the identity and the deep structure of human beings.According to the study, the construction of interpersonal discourse is divided into direct and indirect way. Direct way relates to construction of choronotope,the flowing state of differences and similarities,and communication with "the other". Choronotope needs the interaction of differences and similarities. This interaction requires continuous communication with others. Indirect construction is the influence factors of discontinuity, including the self-cognition and views of "outsiders".However, the relationship here is different from Relational Dialectics Theory.The network interpersonal discourse has its own characteristics in the construction of the network relationship.The reproduction and production of meaning become faster, the extension of the network love relationship more profound, self expression stronger.