This paper focuses on the concept of spouse-selection view of older single young women groups,taking the older single young women A in H city of Heilongjiang province as an example,using the case work method in social work,combined with the person-centered therapy approach in social work,the theory of person-in-environment and the theory of advantage perspective,specifically studies the deviation of spouse-selection view concept in older single young women groups and the countermeasures.Through semi-open questionnaires and face-to-face interviews,this paper obtains the specific manifestations of the deviation of the spouse-selection view of the research object,including the difficulty of love caused by too ideal spouse-choosing standard,the loss of self caused by the conflict of family spouse-selection view,the narrow range of spouse-selection caused by too self-closure,and the anxiety caused by the imprisonment of universal values.The reason,including too much spouse-selection requirements,the family’s improper expectations of her,lack of communication skills,extrusion of public opinion.Based on the analysis of these reasons,export her needs,include the demand for appropriate adjustment of spouse selection criteria,the demand for clear self-spouse-selection view values,the demand for building social support networks,and the demand for enhancing self-adjustment ability.Then,we improve the communication skills of the clients by means of problem externalization,adjust the spouse selection criteria of the clients by using the advantage perspective theory,link resources to help the clients build social support networks,and improve the self-identity of the clients by combining the person-centered therapy approach.After research,this paper believes that the intervention of social work can effectively reduce the anxiety of older young women under the pressure of spouse-selection view,change the wrong concept of spouse-selection view,and redefine the standard of spouse-selection view.It can help older single women to build social support networks and help them gain more love possibilities;It can effectively help young women to change their views on spouse-selection,reshape their spouse-selection goals,improve their self-confidence and self-determination,and enhance their confidence in love.This paper puts forward a series of countermeasures to solve the problem of the deviation of the concept of spouse-selection view,hoping to make some personal contributions to the theoretical and practical application of social work intervention in the problem of spouse-selection view of older single young women. |