The Study Of The Spouse-selection View Of Postgraduates

Values plays a guiding role for people's thoughts and behaviors.As the high intellectual groups of the current society and country,graduate student group's value orientation plays an important role in the whole social values orientation,they are the important forces in the future scientific researches or practical works,and they will affect the developmental trend of the future society,so their values are extremely important.Spouse-selection view is one of the contents of the values on love and marriage,but also an important part in constituting the values.The graduate students' ages are now in a critical period,whether the spouse-selection view is correct or not will directly relate to their developments,thus paying attention to their marriage problems and encouraging them to form the right spouse-selection view has become the urgent affairs.And from the aspects of spouse-selection views about their,we can detect the graduate student community values,know more about their ideas and development trends of thoughts,urge them to form a stronger sense of social responsibility,and enhance their moral consciousnesses.The party and country always attach a great importance to ideological and political educations,the emphasis of the ideological and political educations will be changed by the time,and in recent years,the three aspects including marriage,employment,mentality present more and more prominent problems,so the work about ideological and political educations in colleges and universities is particularly urgent and important.In addition to the plenty of theoretical knowledge,the graduate student groups also showed relatively maturity in the world outlook and the outlook on life and values,but they lack experiences in concrete practices,therefore,the more pertinent and actual contents about ideological and political educations will be needed.This paper mainly adopts the method of questionnaire survey to get the relevant information about the spouse-selection views of graduate students.And it designed the questionnaires from mating purpose,mating standard,mating method,mating psychology and mate cognition these five perspectives,then gave the questionnaires to the graduate students from three colleges in Hefei area according to the random sampling questionnaire,and obtained the relevant effective datum and information,and used SPSS software to analyze datum to conclude the datum about the current situations and characteristics of postgraduates' spouse-selection views.This article mainly studies the spouse-selection views of contemporary postgraduates from the following several aspects:The first part: The essay discusses the importance of the mate choice problems research on graduate student groups.The significance of the research of contemporary graduate students' mate choice problems.From the perspective of many domestic and foreign literature,whether the problems of overall views on love and marriage or only the spouse-selection view itself,there are so many research writings,it can be visible that the topic of the sexes has been highly paid attention And to the marriage problems research about high education level,the college students are the research object in the most of the works.Graduate students groups as the groups which age level andknowledge level are higher than college students groups,their marriages must present different characteristics,therefore,this study expects to find the unique places of graduate students groups on the spouse-selection view,and gives pertinent advice to the work of graduate students' ideological and political education.The second part: Defining the related concepts in the spouse-selection view,combining the Marxist opinions about love to summarize that the two sides with a common goal and the mutual affinity is the true love on the basis of feelings,.The third part:Conducting the statistical analysis according to the questionnaire datum to know about the current situation of graduate spouse-selection view,and comparing the spouse-selection view of the male with the female postgraduates and postgraduates with different emotional experiences to find existing differences through the crosstab.The most significant factor which influences the graduate spouse-selection view is gender,the female graduate students pay more attention to factors such as opposite side's economic strengths,family conditions,and degree,and the male graduate students care about the women's appearances,filial piety,etc.The fourth part: Summarized and analyzing the reasonable parts and existing problems in the mating of the graduate students' groups.The mainstream of the spouse-selection view of the current graduate students is positive and healthy,but it also exists problems of utilitarianism,feasibility,excessive open issues,and lack of the consciousness of responsibility.The fifth part: Aiming at the existing problems of the graduate spouse-selection view,finding the reasons in many ways,and analyzing them.The sixth part: Aiming at the existing problems of the graduate spouse-selection view and the causes of these problems,coming up with the practical and effective countermeasures.