Research On The Application Of Structural Family Therapy In The Adjustment Of Parent-child Relationship In Families With Marital Crisi

The imbalance of parent-child relationship in marriage crisis families is a realistic problem,which has different degrees of negative impact on the growth of children and family happiness.The parent-child relationship of marriage crisis family is an important service field of social work.The use of social work professional force can guide the marriage crisis family to deal with their marriage relationship correctly,and can reduce the adverse impact of marriage crisis events on children.In this study,a family in a state of marital crisis was selected as the research object,and the related theories and techniques of structured family therapy were used to intervene.First of all,the "intimate position" causes the superficial contradiction of the family,so that the family reveals to the social workers the bad family structure hidden under the marriage crisis through the superficial contradiction,and understands the parent-child conflict,the alienation of the parent-child relationship,the unclear boundary of the family system,the alliance of the parent-child relationship and the lack of parent-child interaction through further talks.Then through the arrangement of surprise birthday party apology,joint drawing of family structure map,role exchange play,the formulation of family conventions and other thoroughly change its bad family structure,and finally through linking schools and community parent-child activities to successfully solve the family problems of the subject,so that their family structure returned to normal,parent-child relationship improved,family function effectively played.Through the development of services,the parent-child relationship of the family in which the client is located has been significantly improved.First,the contradiction between the subject and his father has been resolved.Both sides have learned to communicate with each other in a better way.The father of the subject will be more patient with the subject.He will listen to the subject,realize that the client is an important and independent subject in the family,and respect the views of the subject.The second is to promote the change of the mother-woman system between the subject and his mother,the mother of the subject has learned to respect the privacy of the subject,and the subject has no longer formed an alliance with his mother and is too entangled.However,due to the particularity of this case,there are still many shortcomings in the research process.It is necessary to deal with the localization impedance of structural family treatment model flexibly,avoid the direct "input" of both parents and children,and social workers need to constantly improve their comprehensive ability.