The Influence Of Chinese Program "If You Are The One" On Mongolian Students’ Views On Marriage And Love

If You Are the One is a marriage and dating reality TV show produced by Jiangsu Satellite TV.It provides a brand new marriage and dating model for single men and women through an open marriage and dating platform,and its audience rating once ranked first in China.After preliminary understanding,we found that many Mongolian students in China also watch Chinese local TV programs while studying in China.If You Are the One,as the most influential and most-watched program among Chinese local dating programs,has changed the boring dating mode in the past and created a new and fashionable young and dynamic stage.Its design,lighting set,music collocation brings modern urban life fast-paced love feeling.On the program of the guests in a variety of positions,dare to ask,but also let the program highlights continue to win ratings miracle.College students,as an important audience group in If You Are the One,are also a special frontier group gathering new ideas in the society.Their views on marriage and love can not only reflect the basic characteristics of the value orientation of contemporary college students’ life,but also,to some extent,predict the development trend of marriage and family in the future society.This study aims to explore the influence of TV dating program If You Are the One on Mongolian international students’ views on marriage and love through a survey of Mongolian international students’ viewing of If You Are the One and a questionnaire survey of college students’ views on marriage and love based on a combination of qualitative and quantitative analysis.In this way,students are guided to treat feelings with an objective,sincere and calm attitude,to examine their own state of mind,and to establish a positive and beneficial concept of love,and establish a correct concept and value of love.At the same time,guide them out of the misunderstanding,avoid the negative impact of TV programs,help them to harvest a happy love and marriage.Through the text analysis of the program content,this paper studies the cultural concepts of male and female guests,hosts and special guests in the dating show,and analyzes the program content with the content analysis method to form the research basis.In addition,an electronic questionnaire was issued to the Mongolian international students in China to investigate the Mongolian international students from three modules:basic information,program viewing level and marriage and love views.Cross-comparison statistics were made on the influence of If You Are the One on foreign students’ marriage and love views,and details were supplemented through interviews.The study found that the students who watched more frequently showed higher material demands,more cautious attitude towards marriage,more attention to the family environment,and more open attitudes towards sex,but also with a trend of serious appearance anxiety.The influence of love and marriage programs has both advantages and disadvantages.We should give correct guidance on the basis of analysis to avoid the negative influence of TV programs.