The Research On Interpersonal Relationship Among Female Roommates In College Students’ Dormitories

The interpersonal relationship among female roommates in college students’ dormitories is the most common, direct and important relations to girls in college, because of it is relatively closed and frequent at interaction of time and space. However, the uniqueness with female students have brought about more contradictions and problems on interpersonal relationship among roommates. Especially in recent years, suicides and serious incidents of female students in colleges had frequently happened due to bad interpersonal relationships among roommates that have more highlighting the necessity and importance of research on the interpersonal relationship among female roommates in college students’dormitories.In this paper, I found that female students’dormitory interpersonal relationships are generally harmonious by surveyed600and interviewed20full-time undergraduate female students of six universities in Wuhan that used Self-made investigate questionnaire and interview outline of interpersonal relationship among female roommates in college students’dormitories. In generally, the relationships of female roommates can be divided into help each other and harmonious type, friendly and polite type, decentralized and independent type, alienated and apathetic type and conflictive and contradictive type. Problems of the small groups, cold war, ignoring association and so on exist in some female dormitories.I believes that the uniqueness and psychological immaturity of female students are exacerbated interpersonal contradictions and conflicts of roommates. The lags of content of college teaching, dormitory culture and management system construction affect to ease the interpersonal problems of female roommates. Inappropriate ways of family education and the one-sided view of the talent from parents affect the female students to form good interpersonal skills. Negative effects of the socialist market economy and diverse cultural thoughts influence the establishment of the female students correct interpersonal concept to a certain extent.Harmonious interpersonal relationships among roommates bring a sense of belonging and well-being to female students that has great significance for the healthy growth and success of female students. Building a harmonious interpersonal relationship among female roommates in college students’ dormitories requires not only the female students to strive to overcome their own shortcomings, and constantly improve themselves, to master the knowledge and skills of interpersonal relationship, colleges to improve and build teaching content, management system construction and harmonious culture of female students dormitory, but also need the parents to actively build a harmonious family atmosphere, changing the adverse rearing patterns and the one-sided view of the talent, and the whole society to vigorously promote the values of collectivism and to help female students to form the correct interpersonal interaction concept.