Research On The Art Of Conversation Of College Counselors

The art of college counselor conversation is the general term of the counselor’s full of feelings and creative conversation methods and techniques used in ideological and political work to accomplish the educational goals.It comes from the rich ideological and political work experience of college counselors,through multiple language skills and conversation means,to make the conversation more vivid,flexible,distinctive,more emotional experience and aesthetic value.Through the creative use of the art of conversation and the formation with personality forms of individual conversation,the ideological and political work of universities can be made more colourful,better,more affable,appealing,relevant and effective.In the practice of new democratic revolution and socialist construction,Mao Zedong Thought and Deng Xiaoping Theory have many important discussions and practical explorations on how to carry out ideological and political education through heart-to-heart talks;In his ideological and political work in the new era,Xi Jinping has always unified the "explicit" and the "implicit",the "theoretical" and the "practical".The "theoretical" and the "practical" are combined.General Secretary Xi Jinping has discussed the reform and innovation of the ideological and political work of universities under the new situation.The art of college counselor’s talk should be closely related to the current situation,the reform and development of higher education in the new era,talent cultivation,the change of students’ growth environment in the new era,and the thirst for change of college students’ thoughts in the new era.However,from the current point of view,due to the multiple identity roles of college counselors and the busy work of affairs crowding time,the traditional concept of education leads to low effectiveness of conversation,the conversation method and technology backwardness leads to the lack of relevance and affinity,and the poor physical environment of conversation leads to the weakening of spiritual empathy,etc.,which leads to the lack of theoretical foundation and experience of college counselor conversation art,the weak initiative of college students and empathy barriers,conversation The problems of single technique and lack of relevance,the use of carrier and scene selection are not appropriate.To this end,the art of college counselor conversation should take the important discourse of General Secretary Xi Jinping on ideological and political education as the fundamental followings,the principles of ideological and political education as the basis,contemporary psychology,art and aesthetics as the reference,and then form the systematic theoretical basis needed for the innovation of college counselor conversation art.We should adhere to the principles of moral education,follow the law,respect the facts and mutual respect,strengthen the education of the main body,focus on improving the training of conversation skills,improve the sharing mechanism of working methods,and strengthen the theoretical research of conversation work;improve the guidance of the object,and improve the working mechanism of conversation for college students’ learning problems,life problems,work problems and value formation problems;innovate the working methods,improve the organic cooperation between the front,middle and back To innovate the working methods,improve the design of the conversation process before,Improved preand post-dialogue process,with a "dialogue-led-improvement" working mechanism;to select the conversation carrier and scene scientifically and reasonably,and build the operation mechanism of multi-carrier linkage conversation.