On The Lack And Reflection Of Paternity Education

Paternal education refers to the family education activities in which the father takes the initiative to undertake,implement or provide the characteristics of paternal role in the process of raising the child.Compared with maternal education,paternal education has the characteristics of virility,rationality,strength,informality and decisiveness.In a broad sense,in addition to the above content,the father's sex education also includes the father's own self-education,that is,the father constantly studies hard to make his personality more masculine,decisive,strong and powerful and a series of family education behaviors.The absence of paternal education in family education has become a common phenomenon in today's society,which is mainly manifested in the lack of or the absence of the father's company in the growth process of children,resulting in different degrees of influence on the growth of children.In ancient times,there was a saying that "raising children without teaching them is the fault of the father",especially the education of the father,which shows that the education of the father played a decisive role in the ancient society.The absence of fatherhood in education will directly or indirectly affect the child's intellectual development and personality formation,and in serious cases,it will affect the child's normal growth,leading to his personality withdrawn and unable to adapt to social life.The lack of parental education needs to be addressed.In recent years,the role of father and paternal education research emerge in endlessly,many researchers from different paternal education level,lack of paternal education through different,sum up,the lack of paternal education there are mainly two kinds of situations: one is the lack of father's position(for example,widowed family,divorce,etc.);The other is the lack of paternal role identity,pointing to the "nominal" paternal education.In the process of children's growth,parents are the first teachers of their children,and parents have a strong and far-reaching influence on their children's growth.The reasons for the lack of paternal education are also complicated and the result of a comprehensive factor.This paper mainly analyzes the universal factors and individual specific factors,among which the universal factors include the influence of the traditional familyeducation concept,the influence of social and economic factors and the influence of maternal education.Under the influence of different factors,the absence of paternal education is associated with each other and cannot be clearly defined.By studying the lack of paternal education,more people are expected to pay attention to the influence of fathers on children in family education,especially to arouse more fathers to return to the family and accompany the children.By analyzing the problems and causes of the father role in family education,this paper aims to provide a reference scheme for more fathers when dealing with their children and families.The family is the basic unit that forms the society,it is the bridge that connects individual and society,father is better in the family produce effect,be helpful for the family harmony is happy,conduce to the construction of socialistic harmonious society.