The Practice Research About Useing The Satir Family Therapy Model To Study Parent-Child Conflict

With the development of society and economy, social issues are gradually increasing in which the problem of parent-child relationships should not be underestimated. Especially in recent years, parent-child conflicts has been rising gradually. With the higher and higher degree of socialization, teenagers master and absorb outside culture and information increasingly and get earlier arrival of puberty. Parent-child conflicts have been very common and manifestations are multifarious at puberty. Most parents are trying to suppress teenagers’ adolescent reaction forcibly, but children react more strongly, resulting in parents has no way out. These conflicts between parents and children have been a barrier along a normal family life and influenced parents’ work as well as children’ learning, even affected the growing state of young people.Based on the current social and family issues as well as personal interests and professional background, the author attempts to explore the problem of parent-child relationships at puberty in view of the social work. Under the guidance of social work theory, Based on Satya family therapy model, using the methods of casework, the article do the exploration and research of the problem of parent-child relationships. Following the processes and procedures of intervention in social work, author combines the basic practice of social work skills with Satya methods of family therapy in the process of specific research. Firstly, communication methods and models between husband and wife must be improved to reach a unified opinions and get coherent educational approach to their children for dealing with conflicts effectively. Secondly, guide case subject to learn new ways of communication, to develop a new family rules and help case subject to solve the problem of parent-child conflicts, then avoid the problem’s continuation. Finally, explore the causes of poor communicative patterns of family to avoid repeating the former communication patterns after a period of time. Though three detailed and deeper intervention, resolve problems for case subject and his family. Moreover, specific and workable recommendations are put forward aimed at similar problems.Through the analysis and intervention of the case, I believe that Satya therapy model is so highly workable and adaptable that it is possible to achieve the intended purpose of the intervention in local family therapy. For the problem of parent-child conflicts, Satya therapy model give the suggestions.For teenagers themselves, first of all, their actions and manners should be recognized reasonably and regulated. Secondly, they must learn how to correctly express their views. Every family member should pay attention to potential influences from their behavior and attitude to other family members and to whole family interactive patterns. They need to respect other members’ thoughts and needs, give freedom to other members, request others excessively by his own standard. Otherwise, the community also has the responsibility for education in family relationships. It is necessary to change some inherent concepts and ideas existed in society and create favorable conditions for family harmony.