Type Tangles Parent-child Relationship Arouse The Study Of Children’s Misconduct

Since the current human produce give children an unprecedented era of attention, tracesthe children’s behavior have to focus on children in the family.With good family functions,family members line is clear, members of the role is clear, family members love each other,and have the ability to solve the problem.Dysfunctional families on the other hand, thegrowing up in a dysfunctional family, members are more likely to have problems and childrenare more likely to have psychological and behavioral problems.Family is not only body butalso heart habitats, so pay attention to the growth of the family is particularly important.Service object in this paper is Xiaoshu and her family, her family is the core of thetypical family that type tangles the parent-child relationship, mother and daughter is blurred,family structure, family dysfunction.Although my mother had come to solve the problem ofXiaoshu, but social worker as the service object by looking at the Xiaoshu family.UsingBowen school way of thinking to observe problems, using the theory of self differentiation,triangle and emotional reaction of the core concepts to explain the tangled relationshipbetween mother and Xiaoshu.Through understanding the native of parents’family morein-depth mining family problems. Finally observed mother-daughter relationship betweenfamily environment and family dysfunction tangles lead to Xiaoshu of all sorts of badbehavior.The problems for the thesis arranges to meet in the structural family therapy andreconstruction techniques to adjust the structure of family, application subsystem andboundaries to identify family members.For this very bad behavior using cognitive-behavioralschools in token therapy, to help with their tokens Xiaoshu form a good habit, in the processof good habit formation of lowering tokens.The reason the author using household familysocial work to solve the problem, because observe problems, social work situation will directas a patient, not think it has the ability to change yourself from individuals, what we do is helpthem to adjust the structure to adapt to the new environment, emphasizes the help others helpthemselves.The author through the complete service process, including initial contact andestablish a professional relationship, assessing the problems and collect data and then workplan, implementation plan and evaluate finally closed.Service evaluation certificates, family social work to solve the problem of familyremarkable achievements have also been recognition of the family.Service results, thestructure of the whole family has been adjusted, misconduct get fade, parents control childrenbehavior management skills at the same time acquire a good upbringing.This paper is toobserve and study for a family, happy families are alike, but unhappy family each are notidentical.So the author wrote this article more hope to cause the attention of the family, familyactively look for ways to solve the problems.