On Chinese Parents-Child(ren) Ethics In Rural Families With Stay In-home Members And Its Adjustment

At the end of 1980s, our country large quantities of rural surplus labor force spontaneously, massively, continually, trans-region to major and medium cities, has formed the phenomenon of extensive concerned " rural laborers tide " both at home and abroad. With the going out to work as a temporary laborer of young and middle-aged workforce, causes the rural family scale to change slightly, the structure tends to not completely, form "stay in-home family ". Family ethics laws of passing millennium on such as the rural family " parents are here, do not travel faraway " are broken gradually, the emotion break between a lot of couples of rural family, the kindred is drifted apart between the parent-offspring, the ethics conflict between two generations of persons is more and more frequent, cause the disappearance of family's ethics. In these stay in-home family, being assaulted the oldest one is children and elders. In a lot of family one party or both sides of parents go out to work, keep away from the child, keep away from the family life, they can not guarantee to give children essential family education;The young adults labor force egresses works causes the senior citizen and children's housing distance enlarges, the rural senior citizen and the children separate, cause the children to be unable in the home to support elders, weakened the family to support the elders the ability. This text in analyze, stay in-home children and stay in-home elders foundation of current situation, proposed adjusts and adapts the countryside family parents-children ethics the countermeasure. Regarding stay in-home children to say that, as the parents must fully realize to the importance of family education, pays attention to the renewal idea, the adjustment expectation, the enhancement tutelage in the limited parent-child interaction, sets an example, the method is appropriate;On the otherhand the school and the society also must fully play the role, give them more love and care in every way. Regarding in-home elders that, the children should carry forward the filial piety culture reasonable essence of the Chinese traditional family ethics and culture thought, respects and loves the old person, console the aspect in the life care and the spirit to own responsibility. At the same time also must summon the entire society all cared about the rural stay in-home elders, and creates condition for the rural stay in-home elders' health and happiness.