On The Issue Of Interpersonal Integrity

As the concept of modern society,’Integrity’ is a complex of honesty, credit, and trust. Interpersonal integrity is not only the smoothly premise of social members’ relationships, it can also reduce the cost of communication. Furthermore, integrity makes people out of the complex mechanism and can improve the efficiency of the interpersonal communication. It can accumulate interpersonal social capital, strengthen the competitiveness of the social members, promote social harmony, improve the image of the country.However, with the rapid economic development and social changes, interpersonal integrity has become a scarce social resources, impacting the social trust and interaction model. Researching on interpersonal integrity has become a realistic subject, and we have to discuss the following problems: in the face of social transformation and cultural change, what had happened to the interpersonal trust model, and how to view the current problems existing in the interpersonal integrity, and what is the key reason behind the interpersonal integrity, and how to build the new mode of interpersonal integrity system.Interpersonal integrity is a complete system, the system includes a communication link, a evolution link and a feedback loop. It is a process of from thinking, to the emotion, to the belief, behavior and habits. Depending on the degree of closeness, interpersonal integrity subjects can be divided into family, acquaintances, half acquaintances, and strangers. Different types of communicative subjects have different actuating force integrity behavior.Interpersonal integrity’ driving forces at least include interest principle of tool rational factors, moral principle of rational value factors, and the irrational factors represented by emotion. Interest principle is the foundation of interpersonal integrity, Moral principle is the implicit motive, emotion is the stabilizer of interpersonal integrity. First of all, the principle of interest exists widely in all kinds of interpersonal group, and relationship between family integrity can make family members get the true information, can reduce the risk of the relationship between family members,can achieve the happiness of the family; Acquaintances are in a fixed’circle’, Honest people will win friends and stable position. They can get the corresponding interests; Strangers’ relationship integrity has strong’computing interest’ characteristics. In order to avoid punishment, they have to choose the good faith. Secondly, the moral reason to different degrees exists in all kinds of social groups. Family members have the most powerful moral reason, cheating family is the most despicable behavior. The social acquaintances tend to make both benefits and morality into consideration at the same time. Strangers consider more benefits but less moral factors. Finally, emotional motivation is one of the important thrust can not be ignored. Sincere feelings between family and acquaintances are important factors of interpersonal integrity. Strangers and semi-acquaintances are lack of deep feelings.On the root of the broken promises, people try to find reason from the angle of ’cost-benefit’. They consider factors such as institutional environment, institutional constraints, conscience, once the promise that can bring them more benefits, many people chose to cheat others. Then, the external benefits balance or cost becomes the important root of interpersonal faithless. Some people who are lack of morality of honesty, and even lack of the ability of distinguishing between right and wrong, they choose to cheat others. In addition, some people are influenced by the negative factors of traditional culture, thinking ’honest man cheated’, they also choose to cheat others.Interpersonal integrity ’optimal sequence’ is a kind of ideal state. In the condition of the optimal sequence, fair social system environment and the successful model, people would ’absolutely’ choose integrity. This is the goal of the reconstruction of interpersonal integrity. Around this goal, we need to increase costs of cheating, and reduce the cost of integrity. At the same time, we need to learn good faith idea in heart, externalized in our activity, optimize the leading function of government and the system factors. We need to make sure that traditional culture resources are effective, to strengthen the interpersonal behavior habits, and pay attention to the role of irrational factors such as emotion, etc.