A Group Of Urban Women Who Intergenerational Nursed Negative Emotions In Their Grandparents Intervened

With the rapid development of society,various pressures faced by young parents are also increasing.Many young parents need the help of their grandparents,so "intergenerational education" has become very common in today’s society.Regarding intergenerational education,there are different opinions in the society.Some people think that grandparents take care of children,which not only relieves the pressure of young parents’ life,but also adds new fun to grandparents’ later life,but in fact,more The voices are all negative.At the same time,as the elderly who provide care,due to various factors including the degradation of physiological functions and different educational concepts,the pressure on the elderly has surged.They also have more and more negative emotions and mental problems.However,the current society’s response to this issue has not been taken seriously enough.Accordingly,the author takes the negative emotions of grandparents in intergenerational upbringing as the research topic,and takes the grandparents of community F as the research object.Based on the Dominance Perspective Theory,six grandparents of the F community were recruited to work in groups to help members ease their negative emotions.Through interviews,questionnaires,scales and other methods,the author found that most of the female grandparents have the following problems:negative emotional expression,reduced social activities,taciturn,lack of energy,easy to be in a daze.At the same time,its negative emotions are expressed as: anger,anxiety and depression,tension and depression and other emotions.The causes include:different individuals’ parenting intentions,less social activities due to participation in parenting,frequent family conflicts caused by different parenting concepts,and physiological problems caused by participation in parenting.On this basis,this study also conducted a questionnaire survey on the needs of members.The results showed that members need to release negative emotions,rebuild interests and social networks,and understand the current generational parenting style.The author designed the content of group activities according to the problems and needs of the elderly.The activities were carried out in seven times,and the overall activities were divided into three stages: Early stage of the group: understanding negative emotions.Negative emotions are often formed due to the accumulation of small things in life,and their manifestations are easily ignored by grandparents.Therefore,the author will recognize and identify negative emotions as the basis of the entire activity,and help grandparents understand the impact of negative emotions.Its harm,strengthen the confidence of members to solve the problem.Mid-term group: Improve the internal motivation of members.One is to help grandparents regain their self-confidence by reviewing the failures and successes in life,seek experience and see their own value and contribution from the process of reviewing life experiences,and then enhance self-esteem;the second is to reposition grandparents women in The role of intergenerational parenting,establish a correct understanding;the third is to learn new ways to relieve stress that are beneficial to physical and mental health and help grandparents find their hobbies.Late stage of the group: Lay a solid foundation.One is to help grandparents women learn new scientific parenting knowledge,ease family conflicts caused by different parenting styles,and promote family harmony.The second is to help grandparents women rebuild social support networks and increase external support.At the end of each activity,the author will timely evaluate,reflect,and summarize the final results.The results show that: the degree of members participating in group activities shows a significant contrast from low to high;the goals of each group activity are basically achieved;the needs of group members are responded,their self-confidence is improved,their ability to resist pressure is improved,and their negative emotions are effectively improved.ease.However,the group also has some limitations.The research objects are not universal,the scope of resolving negative emotions is limited,and the practical process needs to be improved.The above problems can be solved by the following methods: firstly,to enhance the personal endogenous motivation of grandparents women;secondly,to integrate the family into the process of group service to realize the three-pronged approach of the individual,the family and the community;finally,to link the society and use the local social government Resources are adapted to local conditions to solve problems.