A Study On PUA-style Parent-child Relationship From The Perspective Of Three-dimensional Powe

In recent years,with the rapid development of online new media,the term "PUA" has entered the view of a large number of netizens.At the same time,many related online vocabulary has emerged.These new words have expanded the context of PUA’s existence and also shifted the perspective of PUA towards bosses’ PUA for employees,parents’ PUA for children,and so on.The relationship between parents and children is a type of interpersonal relationship within the family,which accompanies a person’s entire life and is also a key factor determining whether a person can grow up healthily.With the development of social economy,the function of the family has been changing from the initial function of maintaining the survival of family members to promoting their healthy growth,and the family structure has gradually changed from a united family to a nuclear family.In fact,the entire process of transformation was not smooth,and the family was not always calm.Disputes between family members never stopped.At present,children’s childhood life is completely different from their parents’,and the power of parents in the family has also changed,and intergenerational relationships are also imbalanced.Who is the dominant force behind this? What is the truth about the power operation within the family?This article considers the relationship between parents and children from the perspective of children,and analyzes the daily power interaction between parents and children in the family based on the conflict between parents and children.Due to the limited academic research on the "PUA style parent-child relationship" at present,this article starts from families where PUA truly exists,analyzes and summarizes the specific PUA style parent-child relationship and its characteristics.From the perspective of a three-dimensional power perspective that is consistent with the PUA process,it analyzes the specific process of parents’ control over their children’s PUA,the results and influence of three-dimensional power thinking,and explores the reasons for the emergence of PUA style parent-child relationships based on traditional Chinese branch culture,What is the power mechanism that enables parents to complete their children’s PUA,aiming to ultimately derive the interactive theoretical mechanism of three-dimensional power in PUA style parent-child relationships.