| With the promotion of our country’s economic status in the world,we are facing more and more severe tests in the fast-paced social operation.In view of the rising divorce rate,the Ministry of Civil Affairs issued a new deal in the buffer period of divorce in 2020,which shows how serious the reality of marriage relationship is.In the practice of individual counseling and relationship workshop,researchers found that in marriage,self-esteem visitors with a relatively low level of respect tend to be negative,and tend to avoid communication in response to problems in conflicts.At the same time,they have a strong demand for constructive communication.Therefore,this study examines the influence of female self-esteem and communication patterns on the subjective feelings of marriage.This study used "self-esteem scale","communication patterns questionnaire ",and " marriage subjective feelings scale ",for the quantitative analysis among 362 married female subjects;and then continued the interview research on 7 married female subjects.The results of quantitative study showed :(1)The differences of women’s subjective feelings of marriage in demographic variables: education level and the number of children raised were more significant in terms of subjective feelings of marriage.(2)Self-esteem has a positive prediction on the subjective feelings of marriage.Self-esteem has a negative prediction on demand-withdraw and avoidance communication mode.(3)Constructive communication can positively predict subjective feelings of marriage,including marital interaction and family relationship.Constructive communication can negatively predict marital conflicts.Constructive communication has a significant mediating effect between female self-esteem and subjective marital feelings.(4)Both demand/withdraw mode and avoidance mode can negatively predict marital subjective feelings.Marital interaction and family relationship can be negatively predicted.The two modes play a mediating effect between female self-esteem and marital subjective feelings.(5)Based on the results,it is suggested that in individual counseling or group counseling with intimate relationship or marriage as the counseling goal,we should pay attention to the communication habits of the visitors,helping them to improve their self-negative cognition and communication system and their evaluation and satisfaction with marriage perception. |
