The Family Education Thought Of Fu Lei And Its Enlightenment To Contemporary Family Moral Education

In recent years,General Secretary Xi Jinping has mentioned the importance of family style and family education in many speeches,in which he particularly emphasizes the important role of family moral education in the development of children.However,due to the negative influence of many internal and external factors,there are some misunderstandings in contemporary family moral education,which result in contemporary some children's moral quality declining.A good moral quality is an important guarantee for children to survive in society in the future.Therefore,contemporary parents should change their minds and understand the importance of family moral education.So,parents need to learn from some excellent family education thought to make up for their own shortcomings,so as to promote the improvement of moral education level and enhance children's moral quality.In China,Fu Lei is not only famous as a translator,but also famous as a educator due to the publication of Fu Lei's family Letters.Fu Lei's family Letters as the position for Fu Lei and his sons to communicate,which reflects Fu Lei taught his sons painstakingly.The goodrelationship between them like a father and a son,a teacher and a student,and two friends,which is very admirable.It is seen as the modern version of Yan Shi Family Precepts,and the Chinese version of Love Education,which includes many outstanding family education thought that is worthy of contemporary family learning.This article intends to use the methods of literature analysis,historical research and Marxist dialectics to explore the family education thought of Fu Lei and its enlightenment to contemporary family moral education,so as to provide inspiration for contemporary family moral education.This paper is divided into five parts: The first part is the introduction.It mainly elaborates the reasons,the significance and purpose of the research,relevant research situation at home and abroad,innovation and deficiency,and the definition of related concepts in order to lay a foundation for the following text;The second part firstly discusses the background of Fu Lei's family education thought,including his own growth and social background,in order to understand his family education thought profoundly.And then,it discusses the contents of Fu Lei's family education thought from four aspects,namely,paying attention to personality education,cultivating good behavior habits,constructing cultural heritage and paying attention to emotional education;The third part is based on the second part to summarize the characteristics of Fu Lei's family education thought and then evaluates his family education thought from two aspects,in order to see the family education thought of Fu Lei dialectically;The beginningof the fourth part firstly discusses that contemporary family moral education has made some progress in some respects.But there is no denying that there are some problems at the same time,this article mainly discusses the problems from four aspects,and then analyzes the causes of these problems from both social and family perspectives;The fifth part is building on the basis of the former three parts to conclude the enlightenment of Fu Lei's family education thought to contemporary family moral education from four dimensions: to update the concepts of contemporary family moral education,to improve the methods of contemporary family moral education,to enrich the contents of contemporary family moral education,and to build the environment of contemporary family moral education.Through the exposition of Fu Lei's family education thought,it concludes the contents,methods and characteristics of Fu Lei's family education thought.Then,on the basis of analysing the situation of moral education in contemporary families,it finally reveals the value of Fu Lei's family educatin thought to contemporary family moral education.But it is worth noting that due to the influence of Fu Lei's living background and personal experience,his family education thought unavoidably has some limitations.So when learning and using for reference,the contemporary parents should actively absorb the essence of his family education thought and avoid its limitations,constantly improving the level of family moral education and promoting the healthy growth of the children.