The Enlightenment Of Fu Lei's Family Education Thoughts To The Contemporary Family Education

In Chinese modern history, Mr. Fu Lei is a famous translator of literature and art, writer, art critic, and he is also a famous educator. He had a thorough knowledge of both Western and traditional Chinese culture,and had a profound traditional culture and Western culture foundation. And he used the way of his unique and strict family education guided Fu Cong and Fu Min went to the road to successful. This way of family education is not only reflected in their daily life lived with their father, but also reflected in the letters from Mr.Fu Lei when Fu Cong went to study abroad. All of these letters edited in the book which named as "the letter of Fu Lei".In the letters, the education from Mr.Fu Lei is comprehensive, and involved all aspects of learning and life,the contents of education mainly include:the first part is the education of conducting oneself that is personality education, he believes that the real talent is "both having ability and political integrity" and "comprehensive development", art cannot be deviated from morality, if we want to be successful, we must to be a good person firstly, have the mind of be indifferent to fame and wealth, and implement self education by self-criticism continually. Personality education has been placed in the primary position of family education by Mr. Fu Lei. Secondly, the education of learning, he taught the children not only to set up learning attitude that is correct, seek truth from facts, modesty and eagerness to learn, but also learned extensive knowledge. That means the knowledge of children can not just limited in their own specialty, but also through extensive reading to enrich their own knowledge. At the same time, reasonable methods needed to be selected when learning, and the learning of specialty needed pay attention. Once again, the matter of emotional education, one is to pay attention to the cultivation of the patriotic spirit of the child, the patriotic spirit of Mr. Fu Lei throughout the family education process from beginning to end, he taught children to point to the heart of the motherland, and used practical actions to express the love of the motherland, he also paid attention to cultivate children to have the sense of national self-esteem and pride; secondly, family education should pay attention to physical and mental health education, Mr. Fu Lei believed that good psychological quality is one of the important tasks of family education; thirdly the home education need to help children establish a correct concept of marriage; the fourth is to carry out the education about the Marxism to children.Mr. Fu Lei believed that human's life must have the correct world outlook and outlook on life, this kind of life is meaningful. Marxism and Leninism is lively, and they could be used to analyze anywhere from life chores to do knowledge, from daily life to the affairs of state. The fifth is to pay attention to inherit excellent traditional culture.Finally is about life and behavior habits, Mr. Fu Lei taught children not only to develop good habits, but also to establish austerity philosophy of life. The educational methods mainly included,the first is that Mr. Fu Lei claimed through the inspiration and induced to stimulate the learning initiative and enthusiasm of children, rather than forcing infusion method; secondly, in his family education, the more is influenced by the daily to achieve a "moisten things silently" effect; thirdly, he also paid great attention to carry out by actual efforts to set a good example for his children. The family education thought of Fu Lei is the main feature of a strong sense of responsibility and clear objectives, the personality education in the first place, set an example, education carried out in the family bond, equality and fraternity. The problems existed in the contemporary family education of our country has carried on the summary in this paper, which mainly includesthat, the education concept is generally poor, simple traditional, the education target is on the high side, the education methods are too simple and traditional, education contents attached great importance to the intellectual education depreciate moral education. And the causes of these problems analyzed from five aspects, which mainly about the influence of the exam-oriented education idea, the change of the family and social life, the restriction of parents own quality, the lack of family education guidance.Thus, the revelation about the Fu Lei education thoughts to the modern family education,which analyzed from contents, method, principles.