The Research On The Old Man In The Drift Adapt To The New Family Under The Perspective Of Intergenerational Relationship

With the development of the city,the trend of family migration of floating population is more and more prominent.The traditional Chinese family pension model preferences and the effect of the once-child policy and other structural factors,combined with the real needs of family reunion,a special new group-drift old people appeared..Through the study of the literature,it is found that the group of drifters is gradually recognized by experts and scholars.The existing research mainly focuses on the community adaptation and urban adaptation of this group,but through interviews,The elderly group mentioned their own life in the city of children dilemma,often do not mention the community,the city of these larger concepts,but more about the children of the family of some things.Therefore,this article will be the family of children as a research site,the main study of drunk old people in this place to adapt to the status quo and predicament.Because of the differences in geographical,educational and gender factors,the division of the elderly in this group is more serious.In this paper,the new family adaptation problem of the floating family is not the general theory that all the floating old people have the problem of adaptation,need help,but especially those who help the children from rural areas to help their children care for the elderly,because This part of the elderly and children's lifestyle differences vary,the general level of education is not high,so to adapt to the new family life is facing more difficulties.In this relatively single place of the family,the intergenerational relationship is the main interpersonal relationship in the place,so the intergenerational relationship is chosen as the point of' view of the predicament of the elderly.A total of 20 drunken elderly people in the relevant community of J District S,Nanjing,were selected by means of qualitative research methods and selected by means of in-depth sampling.The subjects included:7 males and 13 females;9 10 people living in Nanjing for more than 5 years,I I living less than 5 years;10 and son and daughter living,7 and daughter son-in-law living,3 and grandchildren living;3 from Jiangsu Province,17 from Jiangsu Province The Through the collection and collation of the interview data,the present situation and existing problems of the new family life of the children in the J district S street are analyzed and analyzed.Based on the theory of intergenerational relations,this paper analyzes the reasons behind these problems and combines the relevant theories and norms of social work,and puts forward five ideas to solve the problem from the perspective of intergenerational relations,including:assisting the old people to correctly position new roles The elderly to provide talk about the space,concerned about the spiritual needs of the elderly floating community,the community to create a positive atmosphere,the work of the elderly group to carry out,hoping to help drift old people out of a long time can not adapt to the plight of new families.Confidence,positive attitude of life,happiness in the new family through their old age life,and can provide the community to solve some of the new ways to solve the problem of floating old people.