| Countries from the "double alone" policy to "alone" policy, the gradual liberalization of the two child family planning policy, make China’s two children family more and more. With the raising of two children will be more and more attention. At present, the research on this aspect is relatively small.This study is from their own personal experience and the home two children careful observation of questions, the selection of the 50 a boss in the 3-6 years of age, have two children of the family of child behavior, family environment, parental rearing patterns and investigation, also selected the 10 families of in-depth interviews. The survey found that many children in the younger brother’s younger sister was born with a number of different performance, such as: the behavior of the back, emotional irritability, communication barriers and so on. These manifestations are diverse, but with the child’s gender, age, parenting style, family atmosphere and other factors are inseparable. The results show that the performance is mainly due to the development of the social development of children’s self system, emotional development and social development, and has become the main problem of the two children born early. The sustained length of time and the degree of severity, by children’s own subjective factors, such as: a child’s character; by family environment factors, such as: children under three years of age whether the mother personally nurture; by the parents of their own factors, such as: the effects of parental age and education idea. Parents of children’s abnormal performance, if timely attention and to take appropriate measures, efforts to create a harmonious and democratic family atmosphere, can greatly shorten the time of the child’s not adaptive. The survey also found that the average child in the younger brother and sister was born six months later, will gradually accept the new role of brother and sister.The fourth part of the article also look forward to the family of two children made reasonable suggestions:Parents should pay attention to the relevant knowledge of family education, the child’s problems caused enough attention, to help children establish security; respect for children, early to tell their children two children will listen to their children’s opinion; lead children with two children’s family, feel the fun of younger brother younger sister, often with children of different ages to establish a sense of responsibility, but also understand the psychological needs of younger brothers and sisters;Many with story guide members children in the family, brother and sister’s arrival is a normal process of nature, my brother and sister should have an example consciousness; cultivate their sense of responsibility to share the housework, let the child have active participation desire at home; consciously raise a number of small animal, small flowers, magic to help children understanding of life; with their own actions to promote children to care for the weak, help the weak, have a heart full of love; Mother also should pay attention to their own energy distribution, just born children more is to eat and sleep, then the mother can put more time and energy on the boss, let him feel love and security, believe he will soon adapt to the very period of his.The new problems of family education brought by the change of national policy should also be concerned by the society. Kindergarten can increasing mixed age class, have set up for courses, community and relevant government departments can also be appropriate to extend the two child family. A mother’s maternity leave, for parents to provide appropriate training, popularizing the knowledge of psychology, so that the whole family can calmly deal with the second child’s arrival.Look forward to two children family can enjoy the two children as soon as possible to live in harmony, common development brings happiness. |
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