| With the development of the society, the speeding up of urbanization, more and more old people to follow in the urban job, study, the way such as housing in the city into the city life of children in the city. For trailing the old man, this is not just a regional change, life more will they pulled out of the original social relations. Trailing the elderly such as differences in lifestyle, the language problem, interpersonal problems, from the "home" to the "home" psychological gap problem, health care, urban and rural living environment and lifestyle differences obvious problems, these all affect the ageing of the old man adapt to life in urban communities.In this paper, based on the theory of social adaptation, to adapt the trailing the old city is divided into to adapt to the social environment, social communication, psychological adapt to and adapt to the four parts of life. Trailing the old man can’t enjoy the fair medical services, public services; The old people with peer groups, community organizations and family social communication difficulties; Miss homeland, the sense of belonging is not strong, the family role and status of the city transformation of psychological gap adjustment problems, such as obvious; Different way of life, consumption habits, education mode brings trouble. The character of old people, cultural level is not high, and peer groups, and family members miscommunication, factors such as the slow development of community organizations and the institutional obstacles are intertwined, and trailing the old city to meet difficulties.Through group work, can alleviate the anguish in the old man hold back at home, reduce a little lonely and lonely feeling, is advantageous to the old people’s communication and exchanges, to help the old man to establish a social support network of self-help and mutual assistance. However, trailing the old city to adapt to the need to work together in many ways, the individual level, family level, community level and social level needs to take corresponding measures to raise trailing old man personal and family adaptability and development trailing old man mutuals, mobilize the community residents’ committees concerned trailing the old man and even social policy support, help father trailing better adapt to city life, let the trailing the old man felt the warmth of "home" in the city. |