Social Networking Platform’ Effect On The Interpersonal Relationship Of College Students

With the development of technology and economy, the network becomes a new important media.Internet has a profound influence on human’s daily life, such as work, learning and so on. Networkusers not only hope to browse, to collect all kinds of information on the Internet, but also hope tomake their voices heard on the Internet, to grasp the initiative in communication. Social networkingplatform emerges because of actual demands, therefore,ii is convenient for people to communicateonline, and form their own social online community. In recent years, the number of users in netcommunity is increasing.College students are the future of our motherland, and are also the hope of the Chinese nation,shouldering the revival of the Chinese dream. They are also a group of leading groups who acceptthe social new technology, new ideas. The new social networking platform will be used to theirdaily life and study. Virtual interpersonal relations formed in the model of social network hasaffected the interpersonal relationship in reality more or less. At the same time, good interpersonalskills help students study well and live better. It is also the prerequisite for the students to step intothe society in the future. At present, some students are facing interpersonal relationship problem. Itis very important to assess the impacts of communication platform on relationships of collegestudents.The ideological and political education in the university has noticed this point sharply. By thegeneral review about the social networking platform, and interpersonal aspects work, my researchbecomes more and more clearly. This paper is trying to start with the questionnaire, choose thetypical net, such as Renren.com, which has been widely used by college students，aiming at findingthat the impact of cyber–communication on the relationships in reality, concluding two effects,both positive and negative, hoping to reach a new thought about the ideological and politicaleducation in the university.Currently, China has several popular social network, in which Renren is widely used in collegestudents especially. Renren has its own origin, the reason and process of the rapid development.College students’ interpersonal relationship is a part of interpersonal relationship. Because of thecharacteristics of college students and Campus life, the college’ interpersonal relationship shows itsunique features.Through investigation, we find that Renren has both positive and negative effects on collegestudents’ relationships in reality. Positive effects are as follows：Renren can make use of the realityand net relationship complementary advantages. Renren has been an efficient communicationplatform for university, and at the same time, It will expand the interpersonal circle of students and provide social support for students. A coin has two sides. If used improperly Renren will bring badimpacts on human relations. If the university students are addicted to online games and makingfriends,which will take up too much time and energy; It also makes communication skills becomeworse and crisis of confidence in real life. Surrounded by "sub culture" circle, the students will bedisturbed by the culture jamming.According to the adverse effects on college students’ interpersonal relationship from Renrensocial network, rethinking network social behavior of students, we discuss some correspondingstrategy for dealing with it. For example, University students should make full use of time; Byusing internet rationally，college students improve the realistic communicative competence; andundergraduates should distinguish correct cultural circle，foster interpersonal trust. In addition, it isnecessary to architecture on the network social behavior norm， discuss the correspondingcountermeasures. At the last, we put forward some constructive suggestion that social networkshould be applied to the ideological and political education work.