| As home is the essential cell of Society, the relationship of all members in family expresses the level of equality and fair of the Society, especially the relationship between husband and wife.Hegelian generalized the major idea of China Traditional Cultural as " Family Spirit", which means father owns absolute authority in family. Meanwhile, father is also the backbone of the family and he takes the task of communicate with outside society for family. It is possible for a father that he is also a husband, in this way, Female is under heavy oppressed by the double role as daughter and wife during the growing period. In the natural of Female, there are only daughter-nature and maternity. Where is wife-natural? No wife-nature, "wife natural" equally to Slavish-nature, which is made by society. In traditional family of China, father can dominate daughter because daughter is private belongings of Patriarchy Family. Daughter can be sold or sent or married any one by father; Daughter has no independent economic right, all belongings are controlled by Father; As the main relationship:Husband and Wife, Husband is wife’s god which cannot be escaped and rejected. There is only one Social Role for wife is to be obedience. Family is female’s one world through all her life. No job, no economic foundation, no connecting with Society, how can be independent for a female? Even if in the nowadays, the concept of Patriarchy Family also bound female’s freedom whatever in economy or in psychology.The same as Western Society. Western Female raised woman’s right repeatedly to chase for independent and freedom.Working and Economical Foundation is the promise for female to be independent in marriage. And more important is independent in Psychology. Double Independent of Economy and Psychology can make female feel safety and eudemonia. Also only in this way, the more harmony relationship can be built up in family. |
