Explore Students Interpersonal Relations

College students’ interpersonal skills have direct relation to university students after graduation whether can smoothly in the future and society and their future whether can adult, usefulness. Explore interpersonal communication among college students the problems existing in the development of the students themselves, in the construction of harmonious campus, and to construct the harmonious society is of significance.This article mainly aims at present situation of interpersonal communication among college students characteristic to carry on the superficial studies. Analysis concludes the following, first, the communication mode presents a variety of styles; second, it is seeing someone more capacious; Third, it is more extensive exchanges content, The fourth, it is between heterosexual contacts increasingly anacreontic; fifth, it is formed a few fixed contacts. In this situation, college students under the interpersonal process of common problems mainly has: first, it is the undergraduates partly by the social traditional thought induction cause an error interpersonal value orientation, second, it is family background effects caused by college students contacts self-centered; third, it is interpersonal process, college students performance mood was unstable, fourth, it is their thought is still relatively simple. Analysis of the reasons for this are divided into social contacts, the influence of traditional conservative ideology education mode, family education in schools is not proper, students in the process of education, finally is self education problem to undergraduate itself.Aiming at these problems appeared to offer students interpersonal skills as a starting point to improve their personal relationship measures are: First, it is the school education to improve interpersonal skills such as college students in communicative way to help solve the problem in the process. Second, it is the students themselves grasp of interpersonal communication skills. Third, it is family to let the kid harmonious interpersonal atmosphere healthy growth.