The Discussion And Analysis On Internet's Impacts On The Development And Dispersal Of The Traditional Interpersonal Relationships

The interpersonal relationships are a kind of old social phenomenon happening with the origin of mankind in step, and it is also the most general, most common kind of relation in the life of human society. Everybody lives in a variety of real and concrete interpersonal network of personal connections, which is a "riddle"unable to guess. Though the study on interpersonal relationships is a problem from days of old, "to treat the old problem from the new angle, put forward the new question, new possibility, it is to need creative imagination and to mark scientific real progress."(Einstein) Different from the living space of the past, what Internet constructed for the mankind is a fictitious existence world and equal contacts space. The 21st century is the era of Internet. Here, human reviews one's own existence natural instinct through another fictitious space for the first time since the dawn of human civilization, and obtains a fictitious space, which can uphold individual character freely, express one's emotion truly for the first time. As the extension of the real world, Internet has already become irreplaceable human nature space. There are countless beautiful things which can not merely let people realize the freedom sense that is brought from breaking through the norm, and can give people a brand-new platform that can give full play to one's own creativity even more. The social reality that the network developed rapidly has been already undeniable. The network has already offered a new space for human social life. Under this social scene, sociology must play a corresponding role when being studied, to pay close attention to. That is not only to need of sociology developments, but also to provide a firm social theoretical basis, which meets for the arrival of cybertimes at the same time. That is to have offered valuable directionality leadership and suggestion for the fact that people open up the life of the network, improve traditional thinking, and to guarantee the network society in changes, safeguard the need of social benign operation. According to current situation of present network development, though various kinds of networks action still keep the fast growth at present, because of the existence of social concern of the network in a large amount, the direct impression of making this new things of the network bringing to the public is that the credibility of the network activity is not high. But this can't influence the coming turbulently of cybertimes. The appearance of Internet not only is negative passive influence, but also to have brought the fresh peculiar interpersonal interdynamic new mode to people. The showing especially of network society means the enormous change of human experience, and means the production of the human society and the enormous change of each field lives. This thesis concentrates on the network society interdynamically, hoping to proceed from the sociological perspective and through analysing traditional interpersonal contact again, starting with three respects of blood relationship, geographical relationship, working relationship, analyzing the development and dispersal of the traditionalinterpersonal relationships of Internet. First, in blood relationship, Internet has offered the popular low-priced and high-efficient information sharing means, which make people's connection with relative more convenient. Then, Hi-Tech makes the married couple working at home increase. The appearance of SOHO family helps to promote kinsfolks' cooperation and harmony. Moreover, the cybertimes two-way trend that is influenced is more and more outstanding, and establishes more harmonious family relationship. However, the appearance of the network exerts an influence on the family life, challenges the conjugal relation. It is to expand "generation gap"of teenagers and elder, and has aggravated the conflicts of both sides. In addition, the interaction of the network and equality reduce the teacher's authority. The spread of knowledge reaches unprecedented speed and scope, so the traditional social authoritative position is threatened. Second, in the geo-respect, global Internet has broken the space-time demarcation line, realizing the association of the mankind in the global range, and has offered another places of personal secrets to young people too. More persons begin to surf the Net and look for the love. Certainly, there is too much illusion inside in the invention of the network. So unavoidably one brings some injury to people. First of all, the disappearance of distance just changes to the space-time kinds of the relations. Because of the indirection of the network associated, the interpersonal contacts by "people-people"have become"people-machine-people's contacts", so everybody is playing false games. The disappearance of the feeling of distance makes people wallow in the beautiful contacts on net excessively, and take a kind of passive attitude to the human communication full of defects in reality, demonstrate breaking away from reality, shrinking back unsociable and eccentric, behavior characteristic that indulge in fantasy. Then, the fictitious meaning people of the network can not qualify for the next round of competitions in exchanging the linguistic context with one's own true identity, which makes people the subconscious holding the attitude suspected and denying to exchanging the target's identity and the role's true whereabouts, and then may influence and hold the attitude kept and taking precautions against to the content of exchanging. Moreover, the remote contacts have increased the disguise of the network. Such unhealthy phenomena as the network swindles take place occasionally. Third, in working relationship, the equality interpersonal and interdynamic space of enlargement of the network makes people be able to form working relationship in large space of range. The reduction limited in this kind of space-time expands the close connection among people, which makes the whole social integration day by day. The development of Internet has also improved working efficiency, has changed the traditional working way and the occupational structure. The pressure that social rhythm brings can be mediated in the network too. But excessive hankering after the interdynamic on net will reduce people's direct exchange in the real world. People's alienationphenomenon is conspicuous, which even cause the crime phenomenon of the network. As been known, the purpose to study in sociology is not merely the purpose to achieve academic research; the more important thing is that, offers a kind of method for solving the social concern. It's the same to social concern of the network. We want to proceed with three respects of society, family and personal oneself, form the network civilization system of "the Trinity". First of all, we should strengthen the positive guide of the society, perfect the network legislation, advocate the civilization of the network within the range of the whole society. Secondly, proceeding with parents, they should carry on "the socialization again"in order to meet the development of social culture, set up equal family view, thus they find a new platform communicating with children. Moreover, strengthening the self-containment of the subject, we can solve the social concern of the network fundamentally. The research approach that this literary grace fetches is mainly to determine the nature to study, namely through analyzing to the existing documents and materials about network, combining analysis and whole network development of situation of case, analyse new state in interpersonal relationships theoretically. The materials in the thesis are mainly obtained through searching for various kinds of existing traditional documents and materials and network materials. The case among them may not have extensive representativeness, but reflect the current situation that network influences the associated activity to...