| This study focuses on the understanding of the love of parents between young children and their parents,adopts the method of convenient sampling,selects the large class of children and their parents in two kindergartens in Chengdu as the research object,in the form of interviews to understand the understanding of the love of parents between young children and parents and compare their results.All information collected will be encoded,analyzed and discussed through NVivo11 the analysis software of quality research by researcher.On the question of whether parents love me or not,about 93% of the young children think that their parents love themselves,a small number of young children think that their parents do not love themselves,which think that the father does not love more,the mother does not love less.For parents,most mothers think their children can feel their love,while fathers show more uncertainty,with two fathers saying young children can’t feel their love.About 40 percent of toddlers’ answers about why their parents love themselves don’t know why,and the rest of the children think their parents love me mainly because of the following five aspects,namely,the special relationship,the expression of parental love,my value to parents,parental responsibilities,parents’ expectations of me.On the understanding of the performance of parents and young children’s love,the researchers concluded that there are 10 kinds of performance of parents’ love,of which the top five are accompanying and playing,life care,material satisfaction,language expression,positive emotional attitude.A small number of young children take negative love as a manifestation of their parents’ love,that is,young children think that their parents hit themselves,criticize themselves as a manifestation of their parents love themselves.And parents think that the performance of parental love a total of 8 kinds,the top three are companionship and play,education and personal training,positive language;In the understanding of the way parents think parents do not love,the researchers concluded that children think that parents do not love a total of 11 kinds of performance,of which the top five are: physical injury,language violence,negative emotional attitude,not satisfied,parents think that parents do not love a total of 8 kinds of performance,of which the top three are cold violence,comparison,language violence,parents will be physical violence ranked third.Regarding the ideal parent’s love,the first three kinds of children’s best hope are companionship and play,material needs,body language.The first three ideal parents’ love that parents think is the education and personal training of young children,the establishment of equal relationship with children,and the emotional support given to young children.By comparing the two understandings of parental love,the researchers found that there was little difference in the way they expressed their love in terms of love and non-love,but there was a big difference in the importance of education and personal training,language expression,satisfaction with material needs,and life care.Regarding the performance of parents’ unsent,there are great differences between young children and parents not only in the importance of physical violence,cold violence,negative emotional attitude,and non-companionship of these four expressions of unsent,but also in the way of expression,the researchers analyzed the root causes of which are mainly differences in cognition between parents and young children and differences in the role positioning of the two.Finally,according to the conclusion of this study,the researchers put forward some suggestions to parents:(1)respecting children’s right to play(2)giving children high quality companionship(3)understanding children’s inner needs(4)not neglecting children’s present happiness(5)eliminating children’s negative concept of love(6)paying attention to life ritual sense(7)making good use of body language to express love... |
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