| With the speeding up of urbanization in our country,the population flow route is no longer a single "rural-urban",more and more young people choose to leave their town to move to a larger,more modern,development prospect of wider metropolitan life,at the same time,with this kind of elderly people also more and more young people to move beyond,Thus,a more special group--"city-city" parents are born in the inherent "old drifters".Different from the "old drifters" in the general sense,because they come from other cities,their adaptability to urban life is not difficult,so they are easy to be ignored by the public.However,due to their relatively high cultural level,this group is more likely to produce or experience many unique negative emotional problems in the face of new living environment and pace of life than other elderly people.As the elderly are already in the special stage of individual psychological aging,they face greater challenges in adapting,improving and overcoming this negative emotion.With the increasing number of "city-city" parents,it has become more and more important to pay attention to and improve the negative emotions of this group.The research object of this paper is the "city-city" parents who move to the new place with their children due to the reasons of taking care of the third generation,taking care of their children,and going to the old age.The author selected 12 different circumstance of "city-city" trailing parents as the research object,with the method of qualitative research,through semi-structured interview methods such as access to the data,through three aspects from life,economic and psychological state,sums up out of the "city-city" trailing parents in the face of negative emotions produced by live in another place.Study found that "city-city" on the surface of the trailing parents basically has the following five kinds of negative emotions:social support network breakdown of loneliness,loss of life shift,old age happiness and support the development of the children is difficult to balance the contradiction between sense,economic,health,education and other issues,the pressure of foreign endowment of fear.From the micro,meso and macro levels to analyze the specific reasons for the above problems,personality characteristics,health status,moving time,hobbies,educational level,economic income and other personalized factors have the strongest impact on the negative emotions of "city-city" moving parents.Negative emotion is fundamentally the performance of poor psychological adaptation.Emotional and psychological problems of the elderly are a normal phenomenon of individual mental aging,but for parents who follow them,they are also closely related to social support.Based on the theory of social support network,the author puts forward three reflections on how social work can improve the negative emotions of "city-city" parents,that is,taking the family as the main body of responsibility,adhering to the principle of individuality,and aiming at the active integration of "city-city" parents.Specifically,through three different levels of work methods,namely individual cases,groups and communities,multi-channel and all-around empowerment and empowerment for the elderly living in different places,and through the reconstruction of the social support status of " city-city" parents living with them,the effect of negative emotions can be improved.Suggest create a good family atmosphere,refactoring peer group support network,strengthen community integration and to foster social organization,transfer the "city-city" endogenous dynamic trailing parents into the new environment,motivate them to improve the negative emotion of subjective will,help them better acceptance and live in another place,improve the quality of their life. |