There is no doubt that the two-child policy boots Chinese fertility,but the potential crisis still exists.The elder child’s family status is threatened by the new birth.It could be difficult for them to accept and get ready for role changing,leading to deviance.They tend to perform hostility towards parents and younger siblings,even could have deviance to seek attentions and concerns.The dissertation applies methods of observation and in-depth interview to collect materials.Under cognitive behavioral therapy guidance and support from families,each two-child family will be given individual professional intervention from cognitive and behavioral aspects.First,use therapies of “story”and ”special appointment”to lead the child notice the difference of family statues and parental cares,which changes the incorrect cognition.Second,performance incentive help the child’s self-discipline.At the same time,bravely express inner requests to parents.Third,through changing bad cognition from family members indirectly,build a trusting family communication environment to correct the deviant behaviour by themselves and positively strengthen it.Research found that the improvement of cognition is the foundation and behaviour changing is the key point.Besides,With the assistant intervention of family relations amendment,it is effective to improve the child’s adverse emotions and deviance.To begin with,use ”story therapy”to clear the child’s statue change,gradually adapt the presence of the younger siblings,starting change the incorrect cognition of parental favoritism and undertake relative responsibilities.Then,apply strategies of “token economy ”and “grown-up plan of the younger siblings”,which strengthen the ties with parents.During the process,the more participation and family observations,the deeper feeling of parental cares and greater self-restraint.As a result,the deliberate competition with the younger siblings will significantly reduce.At last,with rebuilding the family communication mode,parents slowly dissolve the misunderstanding and bias of the elder child’s deviance.Plus,under the family support,the child has cultivated good communication behaviour,altering from one-way communication to bi-directional communication.The positive behaviour is consolidated and family relations is improved as well.All in all,the cognitive behaviour therapy has significant practical effects on dissolving the elder child’s deviance in two-child families.During the process of intervention,this is a beneficial try that the child and parents are all involved in the scope of cognitive change,maximum building healthy and positive family environment. |