Research On The Current Situation And Education Countermeasure Of Cold Violence Among Female College Students

In recent years,the phenomenon of cold violence among female college students has attracted more and more attention.Long-term cold violence can lead to isolation,extreme personality,mental illness,interpersonal disorders,depression and other problems,and even bury hidden social dangers.Compared with hot violence,cold violence deserves more attention.Studying the phenomenon of cold violence among female college students is conducive to promoting the psychological health development of college students,promoting good interpersonal communication among students and promoting the construction of harmonious campus.Based on Coser’s conflict theory,Bandura’s social learning theory and Dollard’s frustration-aggression theory,the paper makes an empirical study on the current situation of cold violence among female undergraduate students in a university by using the methods of literature,questionnaire and interview.Sample collection is not representative among the senior students.The study is mainly aimed at female college students in freshmen,sophomores and juniors.In the study,290 student questionnaires were distributed and 281 valid questionnaires were collected to analyze the current situation and main problems of cold violence among college girls.The questionnaire in the study is a self-designed questionnaire based on previous studies,which includes five parts.The first part is the basic personal information,so that we can understand the family background,parents’ occupation,whether they are only children and other background information.The second,third and fourth parts analyze the current situation of cold violence among female college students.The fifth part is the optional problems.The investigation is about the memory of a cold violence event which had the greatest impact on the respondents.In order to further understand the root causes of cold violence among female college students,the author conducted in-depth interviews with 12 students,and kept in touch with them to grasp typical cases.This study analyzed the current situation of cold violence and found that the main reason for cold violence was personality problems;female college students’ cold violence mostly occurred in dormitories and classrooms,and mostly occurred between the same sex;students of different grades had different ways of dealing with cold violence.The phenomenon of cold violence of female college students has the basic characteristics of complexity,long-term,diversity and concealment.The causes of cold violence include students’ individual characteristics,unhealthy living habits and unhealthy hostile mentality;the imperfect moral and mental health upbringing in schools,the deviation of school education and management,the simplicity of girls’ dormitory management system;the impact of family cold violence,different ways of family upbringing and different family growth environment;the unfair treatment and unhealthy treatment of women,the lack of good sex education and the alienation of the network from people and so on.In order to effectively improve interpersonal communication among students and reduce cold violence among female college students,the study puts forward the following specific countermeasures: firstly,we should strengthen self-cultivation,cultivate humanity and tolerance;secondly,we should build a school interactive culture and pay attention to women’s mental health;thirdly,we should pay attention to scientific communication and create a democratic family atmosphere;fourthly,we should innovate social governance and strengthen women’s self-cultivation.