A Study On The Establishment Of Children's Intimate Relationship In Divorced Families

Objective: To explore the establishment of children's intimate relationship in divorced families.Methods: 1.Semi-structured interview.The intimate relationship of 76 children in divorced families was interviewed.2.Questionnaire survey method and experimental method.120 healthy family children and 120 divorced family children were investigated by heterosexual willingness perception questionnaire,and 60 healthy family children and 120 divorced family children were tested by heterosexual picture attractiveness evaluation.3.Statistical analysis method.SPSS21.0 statistical software was used for description statistics,independent sample t test,single factor variance analysis and multivariate variance analysis.Results: 1.There was significant difference among the boys from healthy families(HF-B),the boys lived with their fathers after parental divorce(LWF-B)and the boys lived with their mothers(LWM-B)on item 2(girls speak praise to me)(F(2,87)=3.549,p=0.033).Multiple comparisons found that LWF-B had a higher perceived level from female's behaviors than HF-B.There was no significant difference among the girls from healthy families(HF-G),the girls lived with their fathers after parental divorce(LWF-G)and the girls lived with their mothers(LWM-G)in perceived willingness from opposite sex's behaviors.2.There was significant difference between the boys from divorced families(DF-B)and the girls from divorced families(DF-G)on topic 6(Let me travel with Ta)and item 8(Asking me to go out drinking with Ta at night)(t=2.242 ? 2.275,df=58,p=0.027 ? 0.019).It is shown that DF-B(about female's behaviors)had a higher level of perceived willingness than DF-G(about male's behaviors)on these two behaviors.There was no significant difference in other items and the total score.3.There was no significant difference between LWF-G and LWM-G about male's behaviors;There was significant difference between LWF-B and LWM-B of female's relationship willingness on the item 6(Let me travel with Ta)and item 9(Make ambi-guous limb actions to me)(t=2.304 ? 2.095,df=58,p=0.025 ? 0.041).It is shown that LWM-B's perceived level of female's willingness on two behaviors was higher than LWF-B's.4.The ANOVA of HF-B,LWF-B,LWM-B showed that there was a significant difference when evaluating attractiveness of female's pictures(F(2,87)=3.476,p=0.035).Multiple comparisons found that LWF-B had a higher level than LWM-B when evaluating attractiveness of female's pictures.The ANOVA of HF-G,LWF-G,LWM-G showed that there was significant difference when evaluating attractiveness of male's pictures.Multiple comparisons found that LWF-G had a higher level than LWM-G when evaluating attractiveness of male's pictures(F(2,87)=5.406,p=0.006).5.There was no significant gender difference between DF-B and DF-G in evaluating attractiveness of opposite sex's pictures.There was no significant difference between the two groups of LWF-B and LWM-B.As the same,there was no significant difference between the two groups of LWF-G and LWM-G.Conclusion:1.There are difference in problem of intimate relationship between the children from divorced families and the children from healthy families;2.The Children from divorced families and the children from healthy families have the different level of opposite sex's association willingness perception;3.There are the difference in evaluating attractiveness of opposite sex's pictures between the children from divorced families and the children from healthy families.