A Study On The Contemporary College Students' Deviation From The Love Of Ethics And Its Educational Strategies

Primitive love is,in a sense,a natural desire for human being.Love,as a concept with both natural and moral attributes,is closely related to our social life and interpersonal communication.Love,as a compulsory lesson,is very important for people to understand,grasp and confirm themselves.The accurate concept of love is associated with safe and sound growth of individuals,happiness of family and stability of social society.Love ethics education is not only an important part of physical and mental health education for college students,but also an important topic of moral education for college students.College students,on the one hand,are not yet perfect and sound in terms of physiology,psychology,emotion and personality development;on the other hand,they are caught in a dilemma in terms of moral choice,moral judgment and moral choice due to the impact of pluralistic values from the outside world.Nowadays,various kinds of love,such as vanity love,ignorance love and utilitarian love,are also the projection of college students' concept towards love ethics being deviated in a sense.Faced with the balance of love and desire,senses and spirit,reality and fiction,desire and responsibility,how should contemporary college students choose and act? Faced with the perplexity and erosion of many complex environmental factors and some ethical disorders of social environment in terms of love affairs,what standards should contemporary college students adhere to? All these require college students to introspect their own view of love,and adjust their moral roles reasonably and appropriately,avoiding crossing the moral boundaries in different situations.Focusing on the misunderstandings of knowledge and practice of love,as well as the shortcomings of current love ethics education for college students,this article mainly carries on the research and the discussion from the following several aspects: Firstly,analyzing the interpretation and the understanding of the concepts of love,and love ethics from predecessors,as well as pondering and exploring what impact the love life can have on thinking mode,behavior habits,value concepts of college students,this paper intends to investigate the misunderstandings of contemporary college students in the concept of love and highlights the importance and urgency of love ethics education.Secondly,from the perspective of ethics,this paper probes into and analyzes the misunderstandings of contemporary college students in their views of love,values and spouse selection,and the crux of their deviation in love ethics.Finally,exploring the content,path and method of college students' love ethics education,this paper proposes the specific strategies of contemporary college students' love ethics education from the aspects of subjective education,ethical commitment and responsibility education,traditional love concept education and constructing moral environment.This is also the most important point and final goal of this paper.It is believed that by drawing spiritual nutrition from the ancient and modern excellent love ethics culture and committing to creating a suitable moral environment,it will certainly help contemporary college students to enjoy a beautiful love life on the basis of comprehending the ethical connotation of love.