Study On The Value Leading Of Children's Family Education

In December 12,2016 General Secretary Xi Jinping said that family is the cell of society,family harmony is social stability,family happiness is social peace,family civilization is social civilization in a meeting with representatives of the first national civilized family.And he also mentioned that the family is the life of the first class,parents are the child's first teacher,the children began to receive tutoring from babbling and what kind of tutor,what kind of people.Family education involves many aspects,but moral education and how to be a person are the most important aspect,which are the core of family education.Therefore,parents should take responsibility for the value leading of children.There are many fundamental differences between family education value guidance and school values education in educational subjects,educational contents,educational methods and educational means.Value leading at different ages has different tasks,and the children's mental state is the premise of effective value leading of parents.In order to study the characteristics of the value leading of children's family education,a questionnaire survey was conducted by using the child behavior checklist(CBCL)and the self-compiled questionnaire on parental values.And the correlation between children's psychological behavior score and the values questionnaire score of parents was analyzed.The results show that there is a moderate positive correlation between children's behavior and the values of the parents.The more correct values of parents,the better the children's behavior.And the more incorrect the values of parents,the higher likelihood of children's bad behavior.What's more,the correlation in different age stages of children is different,the younger the children are,the higher positive correlation between children's behavior and the values of the parents.Therefore,parents should pay attention to children's mental state as early as possible.Only on the psychological basis of children's health,the value leading of parents can play the most important role in the generation of children's right values.To solve the above problems,several targeted measures are put forward for parents,such as set up a safe attachment mode,to be a conscious person to lead the value of children,and pay attention to the value orientation of children's playmates.At the same time,we advocate the whole society to pay attention to the family education of children,so that all walks of life can create a good atmosphere for the parents to carry out the value leading of children correctly.