| Under the background of the aggravation of aging,the imbalance of inter-generational relations and the lack of rural pension security,the rural pension pressure is gradually increasing,and the rural pension problem is facing severe challenges.In the history of China,filial piety,as one of the important links of Chinese family culture and traditional culture,has to face the dilemma that its function is weakening as The Times change.Gradually increased since the 1980 s,social cost and real life pressure increasing,make "into" phenomenon is becoming more and more children to enjoy the life is precisely on parental frugal or sacrifice.This paper discusses the positive significance of folk culture to rural old-age care by taking "old red envelope" as the starting point.Red envelope culture has a long history,and "old red envelopes" as a local custom is a way for young people to express filial piety to the elderly,and also a way of rural old-age care.The "old red envelope" is the expression of the filial duty and the feedback efficiency of the filial generation.Through the "old red envelope",it provides economic support and spiritual consolation to the elderly and forms a two-way intergenerational exchange.This custom is not uncommon in all parts of the country,but in a formal way to give the old people red envelopes,guangdong is the most popular,the way is more standard.This paper adopts case study method and interview method,and through the guangzhou J village 12 parental and 13 children interviews and observation,based on the social exchange theory to analysis of the folk culture of "respect" red feedback function and practical significance.As the study of rural old-age rising height,make the social from all walks of life growing awareness of rural old-age,but rural population in our country,there is a certain development level differences,so we should be made according to the actual situation ofthe state and rural more specific Suggestions.The conclusion of this paper is "respect" red as parent-child two generations to build Bridges of good intergenerational relationship follows the inherent logic of social exchange theory,the rural family endowment is a very good way to supplement.The key to establishing a good intergenerational relationship is to establish effective intergenerational exchange.The key to effective intergenerational exchange is the interaction and mutual assistance between young people and the elderly.The intergenerational support one-way behavior often leads to invalid intergenerational exchange,parental through economic means to support children’s life or a career,but children are not in the form of material or immaterial feedback parental,this form is invalid intergenerational exchange,and vice versa."To respect a red envelope" is expected to create a modern family pension mode,it generated by the folk force of rural old-age plays a positive role,can for the rural pension scholars show a research perspective of folk culture endowment.In contemporary social development under the premise of "respect" red folk culture is beneficial to vigorously carry forward the filial piety culture,help to the location of the return of family ethics filial piety culture,continue to play its role in the stability of family pension,also to provide a cultural ethics added sound social pension system. |