Research On The Causes And Coping Styles Of Father-son Conflict In "Where Is Dad?

Father-child conflict is often occurred in family life ,both of father and son’s life,especially for children development is of great significance.This paper is the description and analysis of current situation and characteristic of father-child conflict’s reason and coping style for "Dad,Where Are We Going?" (Season 1).To cause the reflection of fathers,reduce unnecessary conflict and improve the Conflict interactions between father and son.Qualitative analysis found that the cause of the father-child conflict including cognition, emotion and daily activities,willingness to communicate, communication mode, environment cognition and environmental adaptation.And according to the conflict of point, it can be divided into pointing to ourselves, to the others, and to the environment of there three aspects.Flighty, clingy, crying, temper tantrums, "fantasy"is the the characteristics of the reasons caused by children. Quantitative analysis of the number of conflict causes from more to less is in turn environmental adaptation、daily activities、communication mode、willingness to communicate. The number conflict caused by children more than fathers.Each of father-child conflict due to various reasons caused in the number of both similarities and also differences.Qualitative analysis found that the particular form of fathers’ coping style have commands,threats,blame, interpretation, induction, remind, self-talk, silence;children have direct negation, crying, interpretation, request, bargaining, self-talk and silence.And according to the properties of these specific forms ,they can be divided into mandatory,negotiation,ignore the three types.Stare and roar, patiently persuasion,strive to do a "kind" papa, disoriented, friendly is the the characteristics of the fathers’ coping style.The results of the quantitative analysis show that mandatory used by fathers and children are similar.Father to negotiate more frequency than children, ignore less than children;coping style used by each of father-child conflict in the number of both similarities and also differences.The parent-child conflict in the program is only a partial truth, but the characteristics presented are universality and representative.Parent-child conflict is inevitable, benign conflict of Parent-child helps promote Promote the development of children and strengthen the parent-child contact.But in order to better play to the positive function of parent-child conflict, father need to pay attention to control the frequency and intensity of conflict, and according to the own characteristics of the father and children optimized conflict coping styles.