| Fu Lei, a very famous literary translator and literary critic. He did remarkable achievement in his al life, what’s more, the more valuable thing is that he just cultivate the two outstanding son. The letter he wrote to his son was compiled and published as Letters From Fu Lei was a big hit at that time. The book is not only a art books for the art apprentice but also a child-educating book full of a father’s love and painstaking efforts. Letters from Fu Lei is also honored as modern Yon Shi Family Precepts.Through analyzing the Letters From Fu Lei, we can make a deeper research to the Fu Lei’s family education thought and practice.In this paper, the author will explore the reason of the formation of the Fu Lei’s family education thought through combining his special social background and unique personal growth experience, extract its family education’s content and methods. Under such basis, summarize the features of Fu Lei’s family education Thereby grasping the connotation and essence of Fu Lei’s family education thought as a whole.Part one, Based on the objective facts, we can see:the formation of Fu Lei’s family education is closely related to his living social environment and life experience. In his childhood, he was short of the love and help from his father, so he made a compensation on his children, he care more about the two sons, in order to make his sons feel the love and assistance. National crisis and life experience force him to cultivate his two sons a fully useful men, and serve the society.Part two, Extract the contents of Fu Lei’s family education thought:always put the personality education in the first place, Then keep a strict requirement and patient instruction, pay attention to the details when do the courtesy, towards study,he require his sons to construct a broad and sturdy knowledge hierarchy.Part three, Grasp the methods of Fu Lei’s family education.he emphasize teaching the students in accordance of their aptitude. He himself make a good example for the children through his civilization and morality. He did a very strict work in the process of teaching his sons. He pay close attention to his sons in a hyper-rational way, since his care lack the perceptual support, make it important but harsh.Part four, Through dissecting its contents、methods and features. We can see:he keep an eye on his son’s adolesce, at each stage, he adjust his teaching methods thus to make a good adaption to the children to grow up. Reflect his teaching concept and grow with the children.Part five, Strive to raise the marrow of Fu Lei’s family education thought, then put forward some kind of help and revelation for the implementation of the modern family education. Family education should pay more to the intelligence and morality, make children develop in all aspects. Parents should care more and grow with the child together. Teaching in time and make a plan to its growth path, try to find the shinning point and do a carefully cultivation, the more important is that the parents should take the lead, and make a good example for the children. |
