Don’t Urge Me,I Also Want To Get Married

In recent years,with the rapid development of urbanization in China,collectivism has faded,the individualistic ideology has gradually became mainstream.More and more people choose to leave countryside and go into city.In recent years,the number of singles has increased steadily,singleness has increasingly attracted social attention and become a social phenomenon.one study has shown that men is more difficult to find their partner than woman,but the society pay more attention to "leftover lady" than "leftover man".nowadays "leftover woman" has gradually become a negative evaluation label,even formed a universal social anxiety.In this article,I decide to talk about "leftover lady" who has always been "demonized" by the media as reporting objects,and try to analyse from different age levels,different work environment,and different living environment of"leftover lady".Through interpersonal circles,I has found suitable interviewees and talked about their lives with them.I try to understand their state of existence,the reasons for being single,and their attitudes towards love through interviews.At the same time,I have gone the marriage market,tried to feel the anxiety and dissatisfaction from their parents,and wondered to know more about the conflict between the two sides.It is hoped that this in-depth report will demonstrate to the public the work and life status of the single women in the workplace,as well as their expectation of love under the enormous social and family pressure,so that young women will become three-dimensional in the workplace.