Study Of 80 After Marriage Values

Marriage is the basic form of reproduction of human existence, with the later only children, they have a marriage and family temple, because of the different values of marriage, married life has had many problems. The post-80 s generation most is the only child from an early age to develop the self- centered concept, the couple get along with each other in China, they will not understand each other, always in order to over trivial quarrel, serious and even reached the end of a marriage, and ultimately harm is for parents and children to them, children of the damage is particularly serious, the so-called family is the first school who was born, is the cradle of personal growth, the growth of children to their body and mind in a dysfunctional family will also cause some damage. At the same time, marital values for the family harmony, social stability plays an important role in.The marriage of different values in the 80’s life were varied, all kinds of conflicts in the family follow close on succession. The contradiction and the conflict has become a common phenomenon in the life of 80 after marriage. Specific include: between husband and wife role expectations caused by the conflict; the way of life of different family conflicts caused by the concept of family economy; problems caused by marriage value; between husband and wife responsibility caused by marriage values conflict. The value of 80 after marriage not a correct concept of influence to the family brings, serious is family breakdown; rupture to family emotional education children serious misunderstanding, prone to extreme sex education, also produced the single parent families this effect; single parent families of children’s growth is likely to have negative effect, but there are also some single parent families children more in this environment, the more support oneself spontaneous Tuqiang, produced positive effect. The husband wife relationship quality also affects children coming marriage values.The improvement of 80 after marriage values problem, need from the macro and micro aspects of the two methods combined with hands. The essence of ingredients macro aspect to inherit the good traditional marriage values, secondly combining the merit of Western values on marriage in the orientation of development, the requirements of a harmonious society to guide marriage values. The micro aspect, rights and obligations between the members of the family should be equal, with a tolerance of the heart and sincere attitude to respect personality and family members. The relationship between husband and wife is more to be true to the core, conjugal love of husband and wife, in the premise of respect for each other, the more self reflection and self change.This paper studied on 80 marriage values, trying to 80 in marriage by marriage values of different problems as the research object, and carries on the analysis, to guide the 80 to correct marriage values, how to have a happy marriage and the integrity of the family, to set up the correct marriage values.