About No Love Feeling Of Personal Growth

This study is an action research which adopts the qualitative research methods. The research subject is the author’s self experience in the process of growing. In this thesis, the author conducts a two years’self-exploration on "no sense of love" in growing-up process and the problems caused by this sense.Through literature review, the author found that the current "no sense of love" research is nearly in blank state, the current access to the research topic is the book "Perfect love, unperfected relationship" written by [United States] John Weir Wood [John Welowood] and translated of by Lei Shuyun, giving a general introduction of "no sense of love".In this article, the author describes the general process to explore "no sense of love". There are lots of lasting aftertastes during the two years and the author found the reason of the acquisition of "no sense of love". Through psychological treatment and the awareness in daily life, the writer found the certain view patterns to the world and life caused by "no sense of love". In addition, the writer also records the course of overcoming this sense and the performances of the inter world in real life.In the process of exploring "No sense of love", the author has some thinking and enlightenment on life, psychology, psychological treatment and sandbox game. It is an unexpected harvest in this research, so it is presented in this thesis.At the end of the thesis, the author reflects on the study by summarizing the research results and also analyzes the demerits of the study that need to improve.This study used an innovatively psychological research model. The model of quantitative research in self-growth area is a big breakthrough.At the same time, the writer also deeply awares that the research on the problem of "no sense of love" still have a long way to go. It is probably a task needing a life time to face up and overcome.Throughout the point of view, this study used to have to break the psychology of the research model-the model of quantitative research in self-growth areas was a big breakthrough.At the same time, I also deeply aware that the face of this problem without a sense of love, and will not end with the end of this study, it will be a very long process. Perhaps this is the need to face my life and beyond things.