| Since the founding of New China, the collage students' interpersonal relationships have also appeared to be a different character with the evolving social relations. In such a globalization and network times, it has shown the positive side, but at the same time there are also some problems. These issues have already affected the development of the college students themselves. Students' good interpersonal relationships are important conditions for the comprehensive development. Establishing good interpersonal relationships and a solitary atmosphere will be conducive to the formation of healthy personality. Therefore, how to educate and guide college students to fully understand the importance of it and learn the skills has become the problems of college ideological and political education workers. Based on Marx's theory of social interaction and the Habermas' contacting actions and using historical analysis, we divide the college students' development of interpersonal relationships into three phases and summary each period of the personal characteristics. With in-depth analyzing the type, main problems and causes of the relationships ,we conducted strategies for the college students and provides a historical analysis of research in a unique perspective. |