The Use And Study Of The Value Clarification And Guiding In The College Students The View Education Of Love Affairs

College students' love affairs are a permanent topic on the campus. But because of various reasons, college students have a great deal of problems on love affair views. To the college students' love affairs, the educators in colleges and universities have had a lot of studies on the problem .Because we are lack of innovative and effective teaching methods, our educators have spent a lot of time and energies on the problem, but we can not get the expected education results. Under the influence of multicultural of the modern society, we should pay more attention to the teacher's education leading role , respect students' moral values and modes of thinking and pay attention to the students education. Moral main body, which refers to the students, developing based on the developments and perfect people's morals is the meanest decisive factor. Clarify, lead France take university student love view into the educational practice value, this is the concrete embodiment of this kind of education idea.Using value clarify law of guiding, investigated with teacher discussing that based on questionnaire investigation, interview at first, analysis that it needs to clarify the serial questions guided in university student's love view to make up, practice. Then basis the teachers' discussions, the paper designs the concrete steps and methods of value clarification and leading education. The steps are divided into 3 stages, choosing(raising questions), analyzing and leading, practicing. The educational method mainly clarifies and guides reactions (talk tactics),writes tactics, discusses tactics, positively and negatively clarifies guiding methods, talking tactics, proper clarification, guiding tactics, etc. Finally the paper covers that people will carry out the above methods and implement them, by using real examples, separately educating a group and an individual prevention and guide, gathering the experiment achievements in the different stages.To the paper contents, we combine the western "value clarification theory" with the teachers' leading factor, the students' main body education theory, forming value clarification and guiding method. Put forward the concept of value clarification and guiding method and the understanding of the intension and analyze the three major theoretical foundations of value clarification and guiding methods, the Marxism theory, the value clarification and guiding and method.,the teachers' leading factor as well as the students' main body education theory .Meanwhile the paper has analyzed the characteristics of the value clarification and guiding method.The paper has summarized the contents of the views college students' love affairs, trying to probe into discussing the steps and methods of a group and an individual prevention and guide and the value clarification and guiding and method has been applied to the views of college students' love affairs. In the end, the paper has listed a few successful cases of the value clarification and guiding and method, analyzing the limitation of the value clarification and guiding and method on the views college students' love affairs and the useful measures of using the value clarification and guiding and method.Through the study, the paper is hoped to offer a new teaching method for the educators in colleges and universities in terms of the education of the views of the college students' love affairs.