The Amative Ponder Of The Undergraduate At Present Age

Love is a constant topic for human being. To love and to get married is the inevitable course and the key stage which can affect the whole life of people. But the romantic attachment and marriage meet frustration, because love cannot only bring happiness and joy but also misery and sadness. Contemporary college students play an important role in the great revival of China. Their main consciousnesses are good: they dare to pursue ideal love, their thought are open and they pay more attention to spiritual love. When they choose their partners, they put emphasis on virtues and talents. Nowadays great changes have taken place both in economy and society , which have a bad effect on college students. As a result, they have some misunderstandings of love, such as love priority, love with more people, love comparation, filling-in love, haste love and addicted love, etc. How to improve their psychological health? How to develope their ability to overcome frustrations in love? How to get better anderstandings of others and themselves? How to help them to get a right idea of love? And how to reduce the bad effects of love on learning? The solutions of all those questions will help the college students to form the right attitudes towards life,value and morality and will help fulfill the strategic goal of well-off society, in our country.