Study On The Love And Marriage Problems Of College Students In The Internet Age

Love and marriage are two important aspects in life. The happiness of life and success of career are often closely associated with love and marriage. The British thinker Ellis once had a very high opinion of marriage and said that "marriage is the highest stage of life." With the progress of society and development of Internet Age, More and more students of contemporary university pay great attention to the emotion life while they are studying in campus and they warmly pursue the ideal love with open ideological concepts, and which show the tendency of generalization and networking as well as diversification. Although the mainstream love and marriage in ivory tower is healthy, while college students are at the stage of becoming maturity physically and psychologically, and simultaneously under the influence of Internet Age lacking of scientific concept of love and marriage, therefore, there is still some certain deviation and distortion existing in the concept of love and marriage,and which thus brings the negative influence to them in health and study and also will affect their future emotion life, success of enterprise and the stability of society.This paper, taking jiangxi Blue Sky University as an example, deals with the love and marriage problems of college students in the Internet Age through analyzing the love and marriage status of college students in the Internet Age in a multi-level and multi-angle, from theory to reality and from family to society, and it comprehensively adopts multidisciplinary knowledge for research, including Physiology, Psychology, Ethics, Sociology and Pedagogy etc, to analyse the cause and actual state of distortion and deviation and to guide them to come out of the mistakes in marriage and grasp feelings scientifically and rationally, and to establish the correct concept of love and marriage and create a better life.Firstly, the paper analyses the background and concrete representations of love and marriage of college students according to particularity of the Internet Age. For instance:traditional marriage, on-line love affair, marriage on the Internet, cohabitation, one-night-stand, celibacy and so on. At the same time, it is to make a dialectical analysis of the actual state of concept of love and marriage of the college student in the Internet Age to collect the concrete particularity.And then it find that the phenomenon is generalized, the conduct is publicized, the place is Internet, the motive of love and marriage is about diversity and etc.Secondly, in the base of dialectical analysis it discusses the distortion and deviation under the influence of Internet Age and the specific concentrating expression is some distortion and deviation in aspects of society, psychology, moral and behavior and etc. Then it analyses the hazardness of present situation and the subjective and objective causes. For example:the influence of social transition, defect of school education, dissimilation of home education and so on.Finally, the paper puts forwards some suggestion and measure in view of existing situation to strengthen the education of concept of love and marriage problems of college students in the Internet Age. First is to attach importance to family education and teach by precept and example, and to cooperate actively with school education. Second is to strengthen school education. Such as:strengthening moral marriage education, strengthening education in physiological and psychological knowledge, strengthening construction of campus culture and so on. Third is to create a good social environment, such as strengthening the publicity of mass media, reinforcing the supervision of Web sites and internet bars etc. The purpose is to guide students to form a correct view on love and marriage and thus, to provide good guidance and method for some problems in love and marriage, and to go out of the mistaken idea, and to lay a good foundation for the emotional life and career development of the future.