Facing The Reality Of Married Life Anatomy Of The Deep-Seated Concept Of Marriage

Wang Hailing is a soldier and a writer. Her works as "marriage trilogy" - "hand", "Chinese-style divorce" and "new era of marriage" to the reality of the way, taken from life, with literary interpretation of marriage, the real face Married life, the real response to the marital status of today's society, the layers of in-depth dissection of married life in the overall concept, to do that and judgment, to the marriage gives moral reflection and inspiration for the future and the rational pursuit, in-depth and A thorough description of the social phenomenon of divorce on the various reasons, the real reflection of the reality of social life.Wang Hailing one of the greatest works are characterized by its response to the reality and authenticity, the Chinese marital status depth visits from many angles revealed the marriage of the Chinese sub-health status, marital status on the reality of a literary description: In the so-called "marriage trilogy" the first "hand", the failure of her marriage will be mainly attributed to the intervention of a third party to the marriage and men's betrayal, pointing out the Illicit affair to endanger the lives of family and marriage In the second part of "Chinese-style divorce", she got rid of people of the consistent failure of the marriage of thinking, further in-depth study of a more profound problems - not all of the failure of the marriage are related to the involvement of a third party, in fact, The failure of the marriage is more in the internal marriage, in particular, also attributed the breakdown of marriages for women in marriage and marriage on the understanding of feelings of dislocation - "your husband-wife" created by the author through the article would like to Expression of divorce is the essence of the heart betrayal, a betrayal and mental and physical body of betrayal, to the readers on how to address and deal with the inspiration of marriage and family in Part III "new era of marriage", Wang Hailing also sculpts One can not escape from the constraints of social relations "small" but - because there is no equal relations of marriage and social relations caused by factors such as marital crisis.Wang Hailing's works is of great realistic characteristics, not as love novels as romantic, but the world is full of the expansive forehead perforated with "conservative." Her marriage to the reality of the situation of literature describing is the show everyone sighed with grief, at the same time, she also tell from some of our common frustration, her creative inspiration in the Italian people, it is necessary to rationally deal with married life. In this regard, she is advocating for some of the concepts exist in reality reject, also called for the denial of some of the traditional concept of reunification. If the "Chinese-style divorce" from "your husband-wife" problem is that she should abandon the concept. Lin Xiaofeng their fate in the pressure on her husband, to take advantage of her husband's glorious past glory of his life, willing to sacrifice their own careers, to concentrate on doing a homemaker, and their work is not, on its own is the lack of life The positioning, which came to akin to the crazy state of extreme imbalance of flu has led to the failure of her marriage. "Your husband-wife" is a fact reflected in the old society woman in no culture, no status of the case, it had to the attachment, but if the current female high degree of independence today, with higher education, cultural knowledge Have fixed a good job of working women, are not always out of the deep-rooted "dependent" ideology, firmly believed that "doing good than marry well," This is a kind of retrogression and sorrow, exploration of its causes, as the wife of women Self-positioning of the problem is their main sense of loss. On the other hand, she has actively advocated the return to tradition that marriage needs equal relations. On the face of it, this is a very conservative concept of marriage, the marriage is a hierarchy in the area of a projection, May 4 has been advocating the "liberation of personality, love freedom" concept of a reactionary, particularly in today's reform and opening up society , Is spurned by the people for the idea, but in practical significance, its return is undoubtedly a modern society increasingly materialistic marriage can not be avoided by a reality. Like the "new era of marriage", GU Xiaoxi can not tolerate He Jianguo father's request to He Jianguo, He Jianguo also can not tolerate GU Xiaoxi parents'cold. In fact, He Jianguo, GU Xiaoxi and the two love each other is a right, not differences in their own conditions, is a new era of white-collar workers, has a high cultural level, it is because the two people of different origin, because the difference between urban and rural areas And two families of differentsituations, leading to the two people married life, unfortunately.Wang Hailing in the creation of a "middle-aged marriage" in the state to give people a concern, the more problems are handed over to the middle-aged people, because the author, this is the most vulnerable to the troubled marriage age . By the author, "Chinese-style Divorce" in shaping the image of Xiao Feng Lin, also intended to warn women, marital breakdown, if too much emphasis on the reasons for the men, women often do not reflect on his problems, it is not true colors. A woman thought to be on his hope of a happy life, the most sensible approach is in this character and value of women's self-reflection and critical of gradual and orderly progress, the completion of a beautiful woman with the temper of human nature upgrade and increase the capacity of love and be loved.Wang Hailing in the "Chinese-style Divorce" also in the shape of the three positive image of women, the elderly mother of the forest, she seems harmonious married life behind, in fact hide a huge shadow on its own has betrayed her husband, She is ultimately in their own tolerance, tolerance create their own happiness. The representative of the middle-aged women Xiao Li and representatives of young women, such as divorced women Juanzi image of the shape, embodies the modern independent women difficult choice, reveals the marriage is not the only form of love, love "with the injury, not simply Do not "point of view, to promote a new era of women to self-independence."The couple are wroteless" is the charm of Wang Hailing'works. From Lu Xun's "Shangshi" to Qian Zhongshu's "Fortress Besieged" as a connection point to similar motif of this marriage in the chain of literature,Wang Hailing's "marriage trilogy" is the same strain, is the new Historical period of this chain of literary writing. And "Regret for the Past", "Fortress Besieged", are in different historical periods of China's viewpoint of contemporary real married life, reveals a different concept, the fierce collision between different cultures, ordinary Chinese people's marital status and living in social life Under stirring performance of the contradictions and pain in the head, to the people to endless reflection and inspiration. At the same time, Wang Hailing works with the "Shangshi", "Fortress Besieged" compared to that in the new historical period of a certain novelty: in the description in the crowd, even middle-aged to older married life into the process level in the subject of criticism, more More directed at women in the concept, to the deeper and broader direction of depth, causing the failure of the reasons for the marriage from many angles, all aspects of analysis, is not always the accused, Incrimination, but to promote the marriage life of the people To enhance self-examination and self-improvement and for married life with a clear concept of responsibility. . In this chain of literary writing, Wang Hailing works can be said to be advancing with the times, often said to the new regular session.