Dear,Mo-Mo-Da,LOVE You:A Study On The Phenomenon Of "Chaxu Disappearance" In The Language Of "Post-90s"

The problem studied in this paper is the phenomenon of "chaxu disappearance" of language,which means that the "post-90s" do not follow the consistent language norms and do not conform to the role of speech behavior,resulting in role conflict,resulting in language and identity dislocation.Specific performance is as follows:People broke the use in different spheres of different language habits,broke through to see what people say what action logic,weaken the directivity of a particular language and privacy,and will be used for specific groups of language is released,is no longer limited to the use of specific groups,but these languages for more spheres of the people in the use or release to the public,at the same time,The traditional meanings of these languages are diluted,new meanings are attached to them or they are deemed meaningless.For example,addressing classmates and colleagues as "dear";Publicly Posting dirty words on We Chat moments;He openly posted messages containing the words "menstruation" and "dayima" on his micro blog.People reduce their sensitivity to specific languages,no longer use the "chaxu" language strategy,blur the boundaries of language use,and change the traditional meaning of language.In this paper,the interview method is used to study the disappearance of linguistic difference order.Through in-depth interviews,this paper finds that the phenomenon of "chaxu disappearance" is concentrated in four language types,which are intimate address language,intimate emotion expression language,privacy language and swearing language.In order to rationalize the phenomenon of "chaxu disappearance" of language,individuals adopt seven different strategies from three aspects of expression mode,expression object and expression context.With the help of these strategies,the phenomenon of "chaxu disappearance" of language can be generated,developed and continued smoothly,and gradually become an important cultural phenomenon.At the same time,this paper argues that the rise of the individual,the family of authority to dissipate,the emergence of new technology and the surge of passion is the individual above social factors,language behavior under the action of these factors,individual egoism of the spirit of increasingly powerful,when "chaxu disappearance" with language behavior of the individual break the social rules,giving new meaning to language,When they use language undiscriminately in social situations,they actually have a strong spirit of egoism.Compared with other people,they pay more attention to the pursuit of personal rights and happiness,follow the principle of taking the individual as the center in their actions,and seldom consider the constraints of social responsibility and social norms.Whether they are happy or not has become an important factor to consider in their behavior.For self-centered follow even has a tendency to transcend social norm constraint,on them,and emotion can get maximum satisfaction,and when they too much emphasis on personal feelings,self-centered,the eyes of others,and the binding will lose efficacy,they present a narcissistic state over relations with others.And this paper argues that narcissistic individuals will not like egocentric Mr Xiaotong Fei said in Italy for personal gain,on the contrary,when the individual into the structure of social relationships,"I" is influenced by interpersonal relationship structure constraint is close with others and need to abide by the hierarchy and the etiquette system of the individual.But having language "chaxu disappearance" of the behavior of the individual is trying to break the based on the traditional etiquette system formed by the level of interpersonal relationships and manners,and they ignore social relations with others,much less reliance on others relationship,this reflects the social expectations for individual rebellion and to reconstruct the meaning of "I",They are not willing to be the social value of "I" of the discipline,trying to get rid of the social shackles of self,the pursuit of personal happiness and satisfaction,break the affected by the traditional etiquette system formed by the structure and hierarchical social relations,the etiquette system specification,the existing structure and social relations etiquette,hierarchy control faced by individuals and to redefine the situation,Individuals try to become the makers of new norms of interpersonal relationship and overturn the traditional structure of interpersonal relationship.