Research On The Current Situation And Countermeasures Of Father-children Interaction

Family is an important part in early childhood socialization,parents are the first person to contact,children are children's socialization of individual original resources,and is also one of the most basic and important relationship.Father,as one of the important of caregivers of young children,the children play an irreplaceable role in the development of all aspects,to children's social cognition,emotion,and social behavior,and has a unique role in the development of gender roles.But in reality,Father and childrens' relative lack of interaction and the urgent needs of the children grow up to a father,pressing for father to return to family involved in children's upbringing.And good father young relationship can make children feel love and to be respected,for themselves,others and the surrounding environment has a positive understanding and expectation,willing to communicate with people,has important effect on promoting children's development.Regulating the relationship between father-children interaction as the bridge and the link,plays a very important role.In existing at home and abroad for reference,the father to participate in this study based on relevant literature,in X city,the father of 3-6 years old children in henan province as the research object,through the comprehensive analysis of the questionnaire and interviews about his father,and found the father in the family has stronger interactive consciousness,confirms its role in the early childhood development,but because of its own,or other reasons,too little time appear to interact with children,don't know,interactive content single,children are not good at using interactive techniques,the effectiveness of the interactive problem such as not guaranteed.Through the practice research and analysis from father find out the factors that influence the father to interact with children lead father optimization strategy,interaction with children in order to solve the current problems existing in the father and children interact and promote father influence on children,promote children's physical and mental health development.This research puts forward the optimization strategy of mainly has several aspects: The first it is made the idea of father's shift the patriarchal supremacy,with advanced education idea constantly reflect on yourself;Second boot father create harmonious loose family mental environment,seeking to support and cooperate with other members in the family,form education resultant force;Third is insufficient in the face of a child,father guidance control their emotions,in order to cultivate children good emotion;The fourth is to fully understand the preschool children's interest and mining,guarantee and the children get along with time,help children happy learning;Fifth,specific interactive content,the main language interaction,young father reading,games,role model,and network game five aspects,aims to guide his father how to interact with the children more effectively,should pay attention to what problem in the interaction.Through the above strategy optimization hopes to improve the efficiency of today's father in the family to interact with children,enhance the parent relations,to create a good family atmosphere,children to promote children's healthy growth in the love of the environment.