The Study Of The Influence Of "the Absence Of Fathers’ Love"in Children’s Integration

Due to the development of economy and the changes of our perspectives for the society,the divorce rate is rising quickly.There are more and more single parent families,which draw our attention,especially the single mother families,in which the children lack the love of fathers. Some sociologists and psychologists point that children in single-parent families who lack the love of fathers are easy to produce some sorts of problems in social integration,such as psychological problems,the deviation of social behavior and obstacle in social communication, etc,especially crimes committed by adolescent which is increasingly serious.In female single-parent families, the concept of the lack of the fathers’ love,fathers give up to take their responsibilities to raise the children,and the behavior of father’s reorganization of new family cause the lack of fathers’ love,the mothers’ behavior of subjective control,remarriage,and life pressure increasing will ignore guidance and lack of proper way of education of their children,also can let children produce all sorts of problems in social integration.The lack of fathers’ love express in economy mainly are reducing children’s status and education level,which will let children produce a kind of psychological gap;At the social level,children can’t learn social interaction skills,which produce the problem such as deviation of social behavior;At the psychological level,the lack of father’s love affect children’s social integration in the correct positioning of their own social roles,because of the lack of correct guidance and psychological problems such as eccentricity,rough,cowardice. These make an bad influence on children social integration.Because of the bad influence in children’s social integration, this article will proposed the ideas mainly from the aspects such as family,school and society. In the aspect of family, the father should enhance their awareness of the importance of father, to give their children enough love and pay cost to raise the children.Single mother should reduce the subjective control behavior, improve their education level, and do not ignore the education of their children to make sure they can fit into society correctly. Schools should give children to create good communication environment.In social aspects, the government need to give legal system and economic support,also the public should reduce social prejudice.Thanks to the study, we hope it can make more people to pay attention to female single-parent families,both in the children’s psychological status and living condition.What’s more,it aims at producing a wide impact in all walks of life to concern for the family divorced. At the same time, through the study,we want to find a way for the current social problems arising from lack of fathers’ love, and provide the basis for some psychologists who study crime psychology, then find solutions to these problems, which makes our society a better place to live.