Chinese Contemporary Marriage Ethical Issues

The marital morality is an important part of ethics. China Marriage and Moral,after a long period of development, has a brilliant and rich content. In modern society,the diversification of value orientation and moral tolerance makes increasinglyweakened the binding of traditional and modern marriage and moral force of marriage,both men and women of emotion and passion to achieve increasingly complex, whichresults in the moral issues of marriage many new problems. Therefore, to solve thenew problems of our marriage morals in the new era is of great significance.The evolution of the morality of marriage is broadly divided into three phases:group marriage system is the initial stage of the history of human marriage. Groupmarriage morality is on the basis of the group marriage system. Group marriagetaboos is the moral core of group marriage, group marriage taboos is the prohibitionof incest. Dual marriage ethics, on the basis of group marriage and moraldevelopment, evolved. Moral right even marriage has the following meaning: First,pairs of men and women in a certain period of time living a dual life which ethicalrequirements; two pairs of men and women, even ranking life "husband","wife"identity defined as the moral characteristics: three pairs of men and women, evenranking the children born during the father be able to determine ethical judgments:four pairs of men and women even life which follows the husband from the women’sranks, women marry men marry ethical standards. Moral requirement of monogamousmarriage as follows: First, to maintain the patriarchal system is the cornerstone of themorality of marriage. Arranged the sale of the domination of the patriarchal system ofmarriage is not only very popular, and is consistent with moral values??. Advocatemale superiority is a moral pursuit of marriage. The pursuit not only is the moralconnotation of marriage, but also showed a legal connotation. Marriage ethics, underthe socialist system to public ownership of the means of production as the economicbase, the total eradication of the socio-economic causes and class roots of polygamyand replace them with real monogamy. Throughout the marriage and morality in ancient China, the basic principles were defined as: three bonds, sexist, three from thefour virtues, single-mindedness.Marriage moral conflict in real life has a variety of all kinds of conflict in thehome of same, dizzying. Contradictions and conflicts seem to have become the normin the contemporary marriage. Include: marriage and moral conflict between husbandand wife role expectations; lifestyles caused families ethical conflicts; marriage andmoral issues caused by the family economy; responsibility lead to marriage moralconflict between husband and wife; the moral issues of marriage caused by theextra-marital sexual relations.Marriage and moral issues in China is mainly due to the following reasons: First,the food and clothing of the people are resolved; the pursuit of spiritual life willbecome the new demand trends. As for the pursuit of the spiritual life, it is bound toreflect on their life situation, and then bound to the original marriage and familyethics impact. Second, the founding of New China, women freed from the feudalmarriage and morality., Along with the prevalence of money worship, hedonism, andthe purpose of the new generation of young people get married, getting strongerutilitarian. Fourth, the parties to the marriage shattered married life is the lack ofmental preparation, husband and wife for a new life tedious and dull looking forwardto married life, the estrangement between husband and wife. Fifth, domestic violenceis an important cause of divorce. Men often domestic violence, in order to avoid harm,many women chooses to divorce.Solve the marriage of our contemporary moral problems and needs from acombination of macro-instruments and micro methods. The macro level, we need toinherit traditional marriage and morality have excellent ingredients, combined withWestern morality of marriage have merits perfect marriage of moral requirements, ascontemporary social and economic development. The micro level, needs to beemphasized that the reciprocal rights and obligations of family members, and atolerant attitude to respect the personality and individuality of family members.Required on the relationship between husband and wife husband and wife loving,faithful, under the premise of respect for each other too, and more self-reflection and change.