Family Under The Conditions Of Social Change On The Education

Family is the first classroom of our life. Home education lays a foundation in the entire education systems. The influence of the family to the human is profound, comprehensive and lasting. Family is initial place for the human's socialization. It is affecting the formation of human's socialization throughout one's life. Family reveals the special superiority in the moral education by its adaptation education in everyday life.Home education is affected by macroscopic social culture, social lamination, social vicissitude and so on. On microscopic factor, it's affected by the guardian own quality, interpersonal relationship of family members, economical condition, parent-child relations, family ecological environment and so on .The quality and the level of home education is combined with many factors.When more and more people put their vision to the school education, the function of home education is weakened and unbalanced. The traditional culture of China as well as selecting mechanism of human affairs and talented person of China society is imperfect nowadays, which makes it difficult for the realization of unique education function of the family. Home education becomes the extending and the dependency of school education. Family has stressed excessively on a useful adult but has neglected the education for a man as a man. The family has been partial to the individual development, it also has neglected the social responsibility, even if on the individual development aspect it is also unidirectional, incomprehensive, short-sighted and inharmonious. Under the social vicissitude condition, the child has been far away from the real world and the rich human communication situation more and more, the childhood and innocence of the children is deprived too early, the children world is occupied by the adult world excessively. The enjoyment and the freedom of the children has been neglected and immerged in the social atmosphere of utility-oriented, children appear to have the serious flaw in many aspects,such as moral emotion, psychological quality, work accomplishment, esthetic emotion, and so on. All these obstruct long- term development and the sustainable development in children's life.The home education first should be an education for a man as a man, it must pay attention to child's harmonious development. Only the sound and harmonious quality can give one lasting power for the development. The core of home education lies in fostering all kinds of habits;Home education should pay attention to the social responsibility, it requires human's quality, not only to the basic quality request of an individual, but also to the quality request for a man as a social citizen.Under the social vicissitude condition, the education function of family should be optimized and promoted urgently. The exemplary role of parents themselves must revive to be paid attention to;Construct the harmonious family, try best to avoid the spiritual pollution;The parents should promote their own quality unceasingly, grow together with the child, enhance together Education should pursue to be a remarkable man, but should based on an ordinary man;Teach the children with normal state mind, let them be the common person;Promote family's moral character, re-make the good social custom;Take child as an individual life, pay attention to the molding of child's independent personality;Construct family culture, let the family fill the humanities breath, build warm growth environment for the child, be alert to emotion "wilderness", abandon all sorts of malpractices which the utility society creates. The parents should examine success carefully with a new vision, widen the thought of success standard, make it multiplication, give the child today's joy, receive in exchange for tomorrow's happiness.