Study Of Paradox About The Essence Of Network Interpersonal Communication

With the popularization of the internet , the network interpersonal communication has entered the vision of the communication theoretical research. Knowing a piece of things, it needs to have clearer understanding to its essence at first. The discussion about the essential of the network interpersonal communication behaves in two aspects: First, the network interpersonal communication really realizes interpersonal return, removing external physical and social factors, people can carry on real soul communication ; Think on the other hand that the network interpersonal communication taking place under the environment of fictitious network, the characteristic of the network and all sorts of people's propagating psychology enable propagating behavior becoming a mere formality and real spread becomes the mythology. These two statements have certain reason, but holding one end will bring harmful effects to research of the interpersonal communication theory of the network certainly, so it seem the extremely importance to have a clear understanding about the network interpersonal communication essence. This text would sum up, summarize and deduce some essential views domestic and international, perspecting the paradox phenomenon about the essence of the network interpersonal communication, on this basis, it analyzes the reason that the paradox produces, from propagate subject , ways and environment ,etc. analyzing various kinds of subjective and objective causes that paradox produce deeply, and putting forward own thinking . On one hand, the interpersonal return is the untiring efforts for the network communication interpersonally, which is mankind's untiring ideal state that mankind pursue for a long time, from essence and say it is the return of a kind of human nature even more. Since the return of the human nature, the network has broken through the interpersonal space-time obstacle, so it is just the external efforts to realize interpersonal return and can only be close limitlessly, but can't totally arrive, which is a long course to close constantly. On the other hand, the network is a huge fancy dress party, people conceal the true identity characteristic here, associate by way of anonymity or assumed name, suspect generally existing with distrusts, so communicating in real spirit become a mythology within sight but beyond reach. Roszak has described: "People place happy, hoping, the perfect imagination on the fresh thing appeared more than once, ……each invention ……becoming the progress symbolize prevailing at the time. " Information interchanging and emotion met is mankind's eternal spread dream, the appearance of the network having excited this kind of ardent hope again, and people can open the heart wide in the network, exchange honestly, equally. Though because of the fictitious characteristic of the network, the realization of real spirit communicating is hindered to a certain extent. But as regards invention purpose of network, the developing direction of network interpersonal communication can't move towards false side, but close to real spirit exchange illimitably. In a word, the network propagates interpersonally is a double-edged sword that full of true and false, is the "third place" communication just as Nicolas Negroponte said. With the popularization of the internet, the spread of the third place will become a indispensable part in our life. The essence of network interpersonal communication is a piece of paradox, since unavoidable, we shouldn't thinking it holy or evil but need to face intelligently. "It is rational to exist ". We shouldn't draw conclusion easily, it might be a best choice leaving it for time, and only in this way, we could be better to carry on network interpersonal communication, surviving digitally in the paradox. The article is divided into four parts, about more than 31000 words.